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The action on your part depends upon the fact that what you want? If you want to stay with him despite his extramarital affair, that is upto you.  If you do not want to stay with him, then also there is no compulsion for you that you should give divorce to him.  If you want to forget him and remarry to a nice guy, then divorce will be an option to you. If that is so, then go for mutual consent divorce, which can be concluded six months from the date of petition.  If it is a contested divorce by him, he will lose the case.  If it is a contested divorce by you on the ground of adultery, you will also lose the case because it is very difficult to prove this fact in court of law.  If you follow the wait and watch policy, there are two impediments before you.  First, he has no responsibility of maintaing either you or your child.  second, his physical urge is being satisfied with his girl friend.  As long as he keeps his girl friend in dark that divorce case against you is pending and once he gets the divorce, he will marry her, she will dance according to his tunes.  Your waiting will be forever.  So, I suggest you to file Section 125 maintenance case for the maintenance of yourself and your child.  As you are working, it may be difficult for you to get maintenance, i your child will certainly get it.  Further, the purpose of filing maintenance case is that you can meet your husband inn court and in court you can insist the court to send both the parties for mediation for patch up the situation.

Sir, can i demand alimony from him. He has spoiled my life.

And can he also file any case against me and father? as he is putting wrong allegations like we have all his belongings.

Yes, madam.  You can ask for maintenance for yourself and child.  If he filed false cases, you have to contest them.  There is no other way.  If your stridhan is retained by him, you can ask for the same and if he fails to return it, you can file case for it.  If he demands for dowry, you can file case against him for dowry demand.  But before filing cases, remember, you want to live with him.  So carefully chart out the plan so that "na danda toote ....na samp mare".

Yes you can seek permanent alimony if you have already decided to dissolute the marriage. Where as the question of filing false cases against you and your family members lies it may be possible. It is my advise to you keep the copy of complaint which you have lodged and your husband admitted his extra marital affair with other girl because it is before your husband complaint.

In- laws have disowned your husband that means they want to avoid you so that you can not ask residential right in their property or want to save them from different cases after discussion with their advocate.  dont initiate any case first from your side if you want to continue the relation but this  will not be fruitful and as this kind of person never change.

Better get divorce from this lusty man who even do not care for his child.

 

Save those sms he has sent to you.

Dear Sir, He is not demanding dowry..just demading mutual divorce and saying that he will not give maintenance to the child also. Moreover my streedhan is with his father who has debarred us from evrything, so can still demand for it??

Dear Sir, He is not demanding dowry..just demading mutual divorce and saying that he will not give maintenance to the child also. Moreover my streedhan is with his father who has debarred us from evrything, so can still demand for it??

Dear Ranee, can i go to the women cell and ask them to provide us marriage councellor so that i can mediate with my husband. I know he is lusty but for my duaghters' sake i want to give marriage a second chance. is it wrong? i do not want to make false statements against him as i love him very much but i am very afraid that he will make false allegations against me and family.

Moreover kindly let me know that can i send you a PM.?

Regards,

 

SSB

Before he take an action you just file a case against him.File a divorce and cheat case on him.Take alimony also since it will be required for you and your daughter's bright future.