Originally posted by : Seeking Justice |
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Hello ,
This is regarding my close relative.she has been married for almost 2 years.During this time she has been harassed both physically and mentally by her husband.
After her marriage her in laws start making false allegations and even beaten her few times but she never complained.After some time she got pregnant and in her state she was denied basis food and healthcare facilities as a result she suffered the miscarriage.
After that her husband started living separately with her away from his father and mother house in a rented place claiming that he has been disobeyed from property by his father but the allegations still went on happening.
In present situation she has been forced to go back to her mother place by her husband and again she is pregnant again but this time he is refusing to accept her and the unborn child and making all possible false allegations and subsequently moved out of rented house in her absence making impossible for her to go anywhere.
I request everyone over here to please guide her by providing your inputs on the same.
Thanks |
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There are two ways to approach this. One as many have explained, the legal way, file cases, DV etc, maintenance cases etc.
Second is talk it out. Most of marital isssues can be solved just by calm and peaceful talk. I can assure you, any big fight or any misunderstanding can be solved just by talking in right manner. Raising voice, shouting, all this will lead to physical abuse.
I dont believe that the woman in question is a saint, she too is a fault, as this is marriage, here both will be at fault, not only husband but also the wife. even while talking, one needs to stop finding fault and think about how to move ahead in life, as there is a child out of wedlock, that too needs to be talked about. Once peace is made, nothing like it. Marriage is back on track.
But if once you approach court, police as some nuts have suggested above, kiss goodbye to marriage, and beginning of endless litigation, the childs life will also be spoilt along with that of the husband and wife.
This talking etc to be done out of court, once you enter court, no talks will be fruitful, even if, it might lead to other serious trouble. Filing DV case, etc cases, will create a kinnd of grudge on the minds of the other party ie husband, already this person is beating wife, if out of fear the husband agrees to take wife back, he might even try to set her on fire. Killing wife. If one has such doubts, again approach police etc for protection, in other words the marriage is as good as over,
If the wife finds that there is no use making husband and inlaws understand, then its better to take MCD and move ahead in life. How you make the talk, proceed with talking, involving elders, etc is totally up to you. Its question of not just 3 lives, but peace of mind of two families. so be mild in approach.
Remember always, TIME and TIDE wait FOR NONE.
Good Luck.