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Karika (metlife)     02 February 2011

Need Help

Hi Sir,

Please help me, my wife did file a Divorce case with a charge of dowry. She blamed that me and my parents used to beat her. I countered her with an answer that if they can prove that within duration she stayed can show any doctor report state any internal and external injury then i can take responsibility. She did mention a huge list of goods given by in marriage which is incorrect an can be proved through Marriage videos. We went back to her place on 19Aug2010 and came back one for 15-20mins and took her all jewelry back and that was captured by camara by our family. our neighbors saw that incident.

Please help. i can swear that i dint touch her even in terms of physical humiliation. First 7 months she did not allow me to keep any physical terms with her and that was disclosed to her father and real uncle. her uncle is favoring us as this marriage was done by his recommendation and they know our family.

We did catch her chatting with guys on internet and once my elder brother saw kid of a cosy massage on her mobile.

This all were informed to her parents and uncle at the same point in time. Now her parents and herself filed a dowry case against us.



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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     02 February 2011

 @ Author

Suggestion: Now, get yourself tested for 'impotency"
That is what is going to verbally ‘follow-up’ till ‘compromise’ or else there are proven strategies to nail all her false statements for which you need to become a commando and till then be happy with the advised medical test results.
Reasoning: Quoting you “Please help. I can swear that i dint touch her even in terms of physical humiliation.” Why on earth this thought of ‘physical humiliation’ creped in you on first night onwards!! 

Karika (metlife)     02 February 2011

Hi Sir,

Please help me, my wife did file a Divorce case with a charge of dowry. She blamed that me and my parents used to beat her. I countered her with an answer that if they can prove that within duration she stayed can show any doctor report state any internal and external injury then i can take responsibility. She did mention a huge list of goods given by in marriage which is incorrect an can be proved through Marriage videos. She went back to her place on 19Aug2010 and came back to our house once for 15-20mins and took her all jewelry back and that was captured by camara by our family moreover our neighbors saw that incident.

Please help. i can swear that i didnt touch her even in terms of physical humiliation. First 7 months she did not allow me to keep any physical terms with her and that was disclosed to her father and real uncle. her uncle is favoring us as this marriage was done by his recommendation and they know our family.

We did catch her chatting with guys on internet and once my elder brother saw kid of a cosy massage on her mobile.

This all were informed to her parents and uncle at the same point in time. Now her parents and herself filed a dowry case against us

Karika (metlife)     03 February 2011

Thanks for reply, Sir i have done impotency test, where result was in my favor.

Sir please educate me for a big list of things they gave during marriage, which is completely false.

Karika (metlife)     16 February 2011

Hi Sir,

Please help me, my wife did file a Divorce case with a charge of dowry. She blamed that me and my parents used to beat her. I countered her with an answer that if they can prove that within duration she stayed can show any doctor report state any internal and external injury then i can take responsibility. She did mention a huge list of goods given by in marriage which is incorrect an can be proved through Marriage videos. She went back to her place on 19Aug2010 and came back to our house once for 15-20mins and took her all jewelry back and that was captured by camara by our family moreover our neighbors saw that incident.

Please help. i can swear that i didnt touch her even in terms of physical humiliation. First 7 months she did not allow me to keep any physical terms with her and that was disclosed to her father and real uncle. her uncle is favoring us as this marriage was done by his recommendation and they know our family.

We did catch her chatting with guys on internet and once my elder brother saw kid of a cosy massage on her mobile.

This all were informed to her parents and uncle at the same point in time. Now her parents and herself filed a dowry case against us

i have done impotency test, where result was in my favor.

Sir please educate me for a big list of things they gave during marriage, which is completely false.
 


(Guest)

If you have anything with you,return to her immediately,alongwith their accpetance signature.

 

If the list is exaggerated,ask them to prove that everything is in ur custody.

 

You can also ask for receipts of the "exaggerated" things,as proofs.

 

Still you wait for legal advice,Ias I'm not a lawyer

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     16 February 2011

Originally posted by :Meenal Bahadur
"
If you have anything with you,return to her immediately,alongwith their accpetance signature.
If the list is exaggerated,ask them to prove that everything is in ur custody.
You can also ask for receipts of the "exaggerated" things,as proofs.
Still you wait for legal advice, Ias I'm not a lawyer
"

Author

1. Appoint a Crl. Lawyer from LCI panel list and or as per your capacity.


2. Giving back items as suggested by one of the writers is not the way it is done in real sense ! If you have any items of hers still left, make a list along with a covering letter addressed to Women's cell stating returning them in "good condition" and take it to Jurisdiction Women's Cell and ask them to deposit these intheir safe custody as they are The Cell and also ask them to call your wife and her side of family to take these 'good condition items' back.

First hurdle you will face from Women's Cell stating they have no place to keep the 'items' as per Guidelines issued by PHQ for them !. Go immediately outside the Women's cell room and make a call to 100 No. and state your name and address then say that you brought 'items' to Women's cell for return to wife and her side of family as she left her matrimonial home - please help me !.

PCR will call back Women's cell and request them to help you. Now Women's cell will call you in and in front of you make a call to your wife's cell and her side of family's cellphone whose no's you have already mentione din the application. If now they refuse to come and collect then ask Women's Cell to give you that in writing. Again they will refuse. So keep another Application handy stating what all you did once you came to Women's Cell (purpose) and both wife / her side of family and Women's Cell did not help you. Take a stamped receiving from reader’s room.

Go back home, now file an RTI to PCR to give you copy of transcriptt of 100 Nos. call made from x time to z time on such and such date to such and such cell no's along with a CD of its transcriptt. This needs to be done in under 30 days as all POCR calls are deleted from records in 30 days. Your first proof of innocence you have created yourself.


3. The impotency test results is from a Govt. PH center not from some Sablock Clinic. This is good piece of counter evidence useful if such charges leveled in her divorce read with dowry allegations whose special knowledge you may already have.


4. A empty bottle of Johnny Walker consumed at reception nite by brides side is added in their ‘dowry list’ when groom not behaving as per their wish and command !. Challenge first the "Dowry list" given to Women’s cell “is it as per Rules?”. RTI the jewelers / consumer goods stores as per their alleged allegations List for tax evasions whose complete gyan already posted earlier in several of my earlier posts here, dig it (self help).


5
. Again follow para 1 of this reply post and defend yourself and cross examine all her allegations. If truth in your briefs it will reveal itself with passage of time, till then you have to face ‘gospel truth’ of your wife which no one possible could avoid.


6
. Gain knowledge reading Crl. and family law forum posts whenever you have a que. and if similar to your proposed que. was not replied here then may ask new que. for writers / readers to reply as they find guidance wise fit within the parameters of Law.

@ Meenal

I suggest you to wait to read down advises of legal persons to a post as well as several users of this public forum then make a comment as in above. Follow this, if you have any idea how a spouse feels in such helpless situations and wants immediate advise. I suppose mild dose of Sh. Assumi's yesterday was not enough for time pass writers like you ! What do you mean and I quote you when you say "this Family Law Forum is not visited by Lawyers and Lawyers don't reply under Family Law Forum and reply to experts section post their your query" and further why you are directing some of the queriers saying "this post has become old so post your query in a fresh post" (read your own today's post stating above in toothpaste joke posting which I intentionally posted to get your written reaction least you forget that where did I say so)? Do you know my qualifications or any writers qualification or what is your qualification in terms of legal advise till date if your postings are to be reviewed?


If you are qualified or know abc of Crl. Law (more specific dowry laws r/w Indian Evidence Act) I challenge you to comment upon above advise of mine given to this querier.

Simple time pass...


(Guest)

@ Tajobs

 

No,I am not a lawyer.That is why I said to this author that he may wait for a lawyer's advice.Did you read this or not?

Also I advised very briefly,as I don't know much about criminal law.Do you think this author will act upon my 2-3 lines advice,or wait for a legal person to reply,as I suggested?

Secondly,in yesterday's thread of Bruce Shiv, I had mainly referred to replies by Arup and Avnish;not you,as you have a very good legal knowledge.I took their names only,since they mainly mislead,ie,give provocative and highly misleading advice(dirty tricks to avoid maintenance,having live in relations before divorce,etc)which can further complicate the life of the query seeker.I think you did not read my latest response to that thread,ie,of Bruce Shiv.If not,read it again where I lately added that a person may advice as much as he wants,but not give such an advice,which may further poison the advice seeker's mind into doing wrongful illegal things.Same opinion has also been voiced by Prabhakar,Rajeev Singh,etc in relation to these people only,ie,Arup,Avnish,etc.

Once Mr. Prabhakar has said so about you too in an old thread where you too had a rift,that you have no legal knowledge,yet you come and advise men wrongly.

Yet I have not taken your name or even thought of your name,as I believe you have very good knowledge.

In today's thread where you cracked toothpaste joke,I advised Mr. Singh to post his query in a new thread because that thread has been read so many times,that a lawyer may not even know that this thread contains query of a new person.Because people are more attracted to newly created legal query threads,instead of checking updates to the same thread again.So this advice was for his good only.What wrong did I do here?

 

So,dear time passer,first analyse what I mean,instead of jumping to conclusions."Hyper" type of nature is not always good,rather it makesyou judgemental about people very fast,without understanding their real intentions.

 

AMEN


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