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Ajay (lecturer)     15 February 2015

Need suggession

Dear Sir,

I got married in June 2010. I am a lecturer in one private university. When I was in Bangalore my wife has got a small govt. job,  but i told her while joining, wherever i move she has to come with me on that condition only i asked her to join. Now I moved to hyderabad, now she doesn't want to leave her job. We had two girl kids(3 years and 11/2 year one), from almost 2 years we are staying separately and no communication by any medium. She/her family members were involved in spoiling my sister's marriage life by saying some bad things abut myfamily to her husband. And my wife held two panchayats saying that iam torturing her, in both the panchayats the memebers(generally elder people in our village) told  that it is very clear she want to separate  me from my parents and take control on me. She and her parents used very vulgar language on me and on my family members in front of many people.
Now her parents are staying with her and they are saying they will file a case of dowry and torture if i won't stay with her. I went to her long back (almost a year)  and talked to her personally that come and stay with me. But she told that she can take care of her life and children's as well, and i don't need to worry about her. I am now staying alone in hyderabad. My parents stay in my village. Her main demand is i have to stay in bangalore with her and no penny should be sent to my parents.

Please Suggest me what can I do, no w my kids almost have forgotten about me.



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 2 Replies

SuperHero (Manager)     15 February 2015

Ask the question yourself?

Do you want to stay with kids and your wife? - If answer is Yes, then go to Bangalore and stay.

If you don't want to stay and just need visit them once in a while, go and see them on Weekend.

If you want to apply for divorce then you can apply and she will file cases such as 498a, domestic violence and will demand money for maintenance.

Cases will go on forever and ever.....

Atlast Poor kids will suffer with out Love and Affection of both the Parents...

saravanan s (legal advisor)     15 February 2015

If you dont want to live with her file u/s 13 divorce on the grounds of cruelty and desertion.she might retaliate with sec 498a and dv.apply for ab and hire a good lawyer to proceed

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