my sister in law has filed a false dowry case on us ie, 498a and 3/4 dp act, prior to this they went into pre litigation lokadalat for mediation, we attended all the six dates given by prelitigation lok adalat and the girls father filed a complaint against us, we requested the judge of prelitigation lok adalat that please call the girl we want to talk to her and resolve any issue which she has, even after the order of the court and her father giving in writing the promise to bring the girl on next date the girl didnt come and because of wasting court's time her father was punished with a fine of 100 rupees as cost, on the sixth date the judge of lokadalat dismissed the case and gave in writing that the girl didnt appear, we have certified copy of that, then we recieved nbw warrants from the court in 498a, we went to high court for stay, high court ordered us to deposit 40000 rupees(37000 for girl+3000 as mediation fees) we refused to comply with that order and didnt took protection of that and filed our evidences under 245(2) and our application was accepted and warrants were withdrawn, our evidences are so strong that the girl's father and lawyer r not able to answer, the lady judge is biased and she wanted to get us arrested by all legal means, now the problem is that girl's lawyer always tells court that by not going for mediation and by not depositing 40000 we have done contempt of high court but we have called the original file of prelitigation lokadalat in the case of 498a and showed judge that there is no need for second mediation as the first mediation failed due to non compliance by girl as written clearly in the file of lok adalat, but the lady judge of trial court of agra is pressurizing us to go for mediation and deposit 40000 and rejecting our every application on baseless grounds, please guide us that is it compulsory to obey the mediation order of high court and how can we say no to mediation?