NRI Husb needs divorce from cheating and torturing wife

See Vivixa, even it is quiet rude to address you not as Mr. but if you do not disclose your true identity then it is an criminal intent in Indian context.I don't think any Telugu name as VIVIXA and it seems to be your pseudo identity, anyway I am not qualified to judge you but this is the ONE SIDED story and it has become a fashion to level imaginery allegation between the spouses when there is any acrimony among them and it is very pathetic and alarming that this trend exist more in NRI's than residents.

Believe me I am the one who would blindly support imagining a lady to be ABLA in Hindi as ever we have been taught in Hindu mythology.The world is so complex now that relations have no value because we all have become materialstic and robotics and robots don't have EMOTIONS which is a true human nature.

If you have a strong case without fictions or imaginations against your spouse and in-laws, please consult a good lawyer and you would get plenty Telugu speakers in Andhra Pradesh and since you would be filling case in Andhra Pradesh I don't see any difficulty in finding as you desire otherwise you can hire a translator if you wish so.I don't think language is any barrier in India.

God help you.

Regards.

Dear Om Prakash Dhusia,

Forgive me about my Identity. But, many of the grounds which I mentioned are not of my imagination. They are true and for many of those grounds I mentioned have evidence also. Before going to take further step, I approached this forum to get some good suggestions.

Regards

Vivi bro,

I reviewed your post and the attachment. My first view of the matter is that you should try to make peace using family elders and try to settle your wife in EU ( unless you are not telling us something). When the child is born, I pray that forces of nature bring good sense to all concerned and you move on. Its not worth it. 

If you have made up your mind and think that the learned, wise and experienced in life cannot influence your decision, then here are some pointers- wild ones.

1. You make the first move to protect yourself. 

(a) File a DV case on her - she showed you a knife, threated to commit suicide - she is manipulating you controlling you and is abusing you physically and mentally. 

(b) DV filing can be done by filing with :-

      (i) Local police

      (ii) Clinical psychologist/Social worker/Counseller - In EU and US, all these three entities are legally                  bound to address DV situations. 

(c) If you dont file DV in EU, she can file DV on you in India and then you are screwed my brother. You make the first move - file DV. 

2. Get her deported from EU. You will need the grounds. If she has threated suicide, she is probably mentally unsound. EU does not need mentally unsound to immigrate. 

3. File divorce in EU so you have control. You can also file divorce in India. Grounds - cruelty, harassment,unsound mind,adultry et all........

4. Keep God out of your pleadings. "I promised God that I will have a Baby there". Show you are supportive of your pregnent wife and the case is not turned against you for mentally harassing a pregnent women - that would be a crime against God and man ( your wife) equally.

5. Your EU citizenship can be seriously jeopardised if you have DV on you. 

Finally, I fail to understand, which same man on this earth will file divorce on a pregnent women. How will she pay for her and the childs medical needs. If the child is in India with the mom and you are in EU, how will you ever live in peace. 

Om Praskash ji has attempted to convey wisdom to you in his post. Why dont you repost with the details instead of masking them. 

Best of luck

Now, to your queries, my 2 cents:-

1)      Chances of getting divorce based on the reasons stated? (More reason can be given later. She is pregnant now)

a.       If yes, please guide us well. Else, suggest us the legal ways to get divorce.

2)      As she told that she will do anything for her benefits, are there any laws to safeguard us from any criminal proceedings which she may charge on us? (All of our family members including me never harassed her either physically or mentally)

3)      As we both live in different states in India (I am NRI), what is the right jurisdiction place to resolve the problems? We don’t speak Kannada and they speak both Kannada and Telugu.

4)      Will it be safe if she stays with my parents in India? We told her to come to our place and have the baby in my home town, as I promised God that I will have a Baby there. But she is not listening to our words and stressing that she will never come to our place in India. But she wants to come abroad.

5)      Are there any good and genuine lawyers who can speak and write Telugu and can take our case?

6)      I am planning to take EU nation citizenship. Will it be advantageous to me or not?

7)      If I am missing anything to ask, please feel free to add that also.