Hello ,
Im swarna from karnataka . Hope u can spare some time for clarifying some doubts on some legal points.
case in short-
I was married on 2012 & i have a 1 yr baby girl. My husband is an alcoholic, & due to his torture & alcoholic behaviour has led to breakdown of my marraige. He had made several demands for my property to be transferred to his name or flat worth 1 crore, my gold ornaments, when i failed to fulfill his wishes he started torturing me & my baby too. We were living separetly after he deserted us in my mothers house since 2013. I had not filed any case against him but recently he has filed 2 cases against me
1) restitution of conjugal rights
2) custody of child.
My husband's sole intention is to harass & torture me. He doesnt have any interest in the child.
i have filed counter to these cases & also divorce & permanent alimony, also will not give custody to him.
Before he filed these cases i had tried to get passport of my baby , so that i can go abroad & study & work. before the passport authorities i had produced annexure G, annexure -C , from judicial magistrate but they did not accept this as they demanded that my husband should come to the passport office & sign there.
My main wish is to go away from india from all this mess so that I can live peacefully with my daughter.
Knowing my husband he will not give a single penny to us & also he could tolerate my going abroad with the child, not that he cares he cannot accept anything good happening to us. Now my question to you is.
1) if i get a divorce by mutual consent will it be possible to make sure my husband does not get ant visitation right or any right on the child throughout our lifetime so that i can get my baby's passport n go abroad without any legal hassles. as they say father is natural guardian is it possible to waive off his rights completely if he agrees to it??
2) If i get custody of the child after divorce will that alone suffice to get passport of my child. wat other documents should i produce?
3) should i get a no objection certificate from him saying he does not mind my child travelling abroad??
4) have u handled any such case or do u have any knowlegde of such cases being on trial?
5) Even if he agrees initially in writing can he prevent me & my child from staying abroad in future as in can he put any case or deport our passport etc saying he changed his mind??
6) can we make such demands? will it be considered valid?
if u could clear my doubts it wud be very helpful