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what is the meaning of sharedhousehold????


if a wife is living in her matrimonial home and domestic violence case has also been going on,husband due to a tactic has shifted to a rented accomodation...... then

 

1. can the daughter in-law be evicted under domestic violence case in mahila court  just because husband is not living there??

2. if property belongs to father in-law then eviction can be done under dv act??

3.f property is ancestral then what can be done??

4. is it mandatory to file an eviction suit in civil court??



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Originally posted by : shivani


what is the meaning of sharedhousehold????

Ans:

Justice Dhingra Explains The Meaning Of Shared Household

 

He defines a shared household as the following:

“Once a person gains majority, he becomes independent and parents have no liability to maintain him. It is different thing that out of love and affection, the parents may continue to support him even when he becomes financially independent or continue to help him even after his marriage. This help and support of parents to the son is available only out of their love and affection and out of mutual trust and understanding. There is no legal liability on the parents to continue to support a dis-obedient son or a son which becomes liability on them or a son who dis-respects or dis-regards them or becomes a source of nuisance for them or trouble for them. The parents can always forsake such a son and daughter-in-law and tell them to leave their house and lead their own life and let them live in peace. It is because of love, affection, mutual trust, respect and support that members of a joint family gain from each other that the parents keep supporting their sons and families of sons. In turn, the parents get equal support, love, affection and care. Where this mutual relationship of love, care, trust and support goes, the parents cannot be forced to keep a son or daughter in law with them nor there is any statutory provision which compels parents to suffer because of the acts of residence and his son or daughter in law.”

He defines a matrimonial home in the following manner:

“However, matrimonial home was not just a building made of bricks and walls. It was a home/place comprising of sweetness of relations of family members and elders, full of blessing. In the matrimonial home, matrimonial rights and obligations are to be equally observed. Practically speaking, the residence of husband should be the home of the wife where both the spouses have equal right to reside.”

Here is the judgement, a boon to those facing the ugly reality of the clumsily drafted domestic violence act:




if a wife is living in her matrimonial home and domestic violence case has also been going on,husband due to a tactic has shifted to a rented accomodation...... then

Then you should have some shame, you have filed DV case against your husband and your in-laws and still living with in-laws,  


1. can the daughter in-law be evicted under domestic violence case in mahila court  just because husband is not living there??
Yes.  You married your husband, not your FIL and MIL, you ought to be with husband, not with in-laws.


2. if property belongs to father in-law then eviction can be done under dv act??

If it is self earned property, the you can be kicked out.



3.f property is ancestral then what can be done??

Still you can be kicked out, if your in-laws file civil injunction ciiting your behavior towards them and their old age and that they need to be left alone in old age.

4. is it mandatory to file an eviction suit in civil court??

Yes.


(Guest)

@ helping hand: 1st of all mind your language.......... stop using such fowl words " kick out..."

shame toh mere pati ko bhi nahi hai jo woh khud ki biwi ko road pe laane laga hua hai........... tumhare mein bhi sharam nahi hai jo ek ladki se iss tarah tum baat kare ho........... stop taking out your frustration like this on a networking site.......... agar tumhari beti hoti toh tumhe pata chalta ki maa-baap ko kaisa lagta hai jab unki daughter ko koi dukh de ya road pe laaney ki koshish kare.............. badtameez ki tarah tumhara haq nahi hai aise reply karne ka............. teri biwi ne agar tujhe naach nachaya hai toh theek kia hoga............. jisko ek stranger tak se baat karne ki tameez nahi hai woh biwi ko kya khush rakhega............ secondly jab tumhe full story nahi pata toh faltu ki comment baazi mat kar...............dafaa ho and don't reply on my queries................. kisi dukhi insaan ko dukhi karke uski bad-dua mat le.......

Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     16 July 2013

Shared household is defined in the Act as follows:

"shared household" means a household where the person aggrieved lives or at any stage has lived in a domestic relationship either singly or along with the respondent and includes such a household whether owned or tenanted either jointly by the aggrieved person and the respondent, or owned or tenanted by either of them in respect of which either the aggrieved person or the respondent or both jointly or singly have any right, title, interest or equity and includes such a household which may belong to the joint family of which the respondent is a member, irrespective of whether the respondent or the aggrieved person has any right, title or interest in the shared household;

The above definition stipulates the following conditions to the wife to seek the rights in shared household:

1.  Both husband and wife must have been living or in the past lived together in the house.  It does not require that at the time of filing the application or at the time of passing the order they must be living in that place.  Even in the past also, if they lived together, the wife is entitled to seek the relief.

2.  The house may be tenanted by the husband or owned by husband. or

3.  If the husband has lived in that house as a member of joint family along with his wife before estrangement and in fact husband does not have any right, tile or interest in the household - means it is in the name of wife's father-in-law or mother-in-law - then also as both husband and wife lived together in matrimonial relationship, the wife can seek the relief of shared household.

Why expressly the third condition has been laid down in the law is for the reason that if father-in-law, mother-in-law collude with the husband and husband in the pretext of disowning his parents go away from the matrimonial home to some shaddy, shabby and unhygenic rented home just with an intention of depriving the wife of the right of shared household.  When she seeks the relief from the court, he dumps his wife in that dungeon, he surreptiously crawls back to his parental home.  This is called hoodwinking the court.  If the wife succeeds to explain the court about the vitious game plan hatched by the husband to deprive her of decent living in hitherto matrimonial home, the court will rubbishes the husband's claim of providing rental accommodation to the wife and provides her the relief of shared household in matrimonial home.

While seeking the shared household relief, go through the judgment passed by the hon'ble Supreme Court in Tarun Batra's case, where certain caveats are imposed on the wife and how to overcome them.  You need not bother about Justice Dhingra's judgment as it was a single judge's decision, that too only from High Court and even Delhi lower judiciary has long back stopped to take this decision seriously. 

 


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Originally posted by : shivani


@ helping hand: 1st of all mind your language.......... stop using such fowl words " kick out..."

shame toh mere pati ko bhi nahi hai jo woh khud ki biwi ko road pe laane laga hua hai........... tumhare mein bhi sharam nahi hai jo ek ladki se iss tarah tum baat kare ho...........

stop taking out your frustration like this on a networking site..........

Be reminded this is not a social networking site, but a Legal Forum.

 

agar tumhari beti hoti toh tumhe pata chalta ki maa-baap ko kaisa lagta hai jab unki daughter ko koi dukh de ya road pe laaney ki koshish kare.............. badtameez ki tarah tumhara haq nahi hai aise reply karne ka............. teri biwi ne agar tujhe naach nachaya hai toh theek kia hoga............. jisko ek stranger tak se baat karne ki tameez nahi hai woh biwi ko kya khush rakhega............ secondly jab tumhe full story nahi pata toh faltu ki comment baazi mat kar...............dafaa ho and don't reply on my queries................. kisi dukhi insaan ko dukhi karke uski bad-dua mat le.......


Lady, come to terms with reality.


Please do not feel offended as to the word kicked-out.  Kicked out or shown the door are just words, but the amount of humiliation one will undergo when there is a civil injunction order or DV [sessions set aside] order is even more painful to explain.

You really do not know how things work legally.  I have seen hundreds of such cases, they i.e. really and literally throw the daughter in law out, if she does not cooperate to leave the premises in a dignified way.  What happens later is not worth to be spoke about.


But I have answered exactly to what questions you have asked, and nothing else.


And please do not use unparliamentary words in open legal forum, its a kind request.


You may if post your entire query to get appropriate answers and also as to how to over come it legally.  I'd be glad to help.


Regards,

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Ajay (none)     17 July 2013

Helping hand & Need justice,

I agree with what you have tried to convey though your replies, which is a on the sport reply however she will not understand today becasue of her ego. This lady can't compromise in anything. She is only concerned about her rights. She isn't "DUKHI", its people who are around her are "Dukhi". Her eyes are on Property & Money. Understand how cunning she is. I ask you Shivani, what if same goes with your father if his daughter in law does the same thing with your father and brother. what would be your opinion???? Should your father give out his property to someone who is a big time pain in his life??

so think about it and decide what you want to do.

Its not a social networking website for your knowledge. Whatever is being advised to you by lawyers that is true in your case and there is no fee for it, that's why you are not getting a favourable anwers. If you meet out side and ask the same question to a lawyer you will get different replies and replies of your choice because of Money which you will pay to them and trust me you will love these replies intially and follow that all which will be told you to do by lawyers but one day you will realise by your own experience that these guys on this form were true but that day you will not have any option then a ruined life, old parents,  grey hairs, emply hands and all alone in life and You only will be responsible for all of this.


(Guest)

all the above VELLA boys JUST SHUT UP............................and stop commenting................... its a legal forum not a counselling forum and not for throwing personal comments...................get lost else i will complain that you are harassing a girl with such nonsense comments...........

Ajay (none)     19 July 2013

 @ Shivani,

If you don't agree with what laywers say and you call them "Vella" and "Get lost". See no one invited you to come to this form and seek advice. You asked for lawyers / experts opinion and when you haven't got favourable answer, you have started using foul language.

 

Go and file a case and you will come to know about the results by own. All the best.


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