Please help me from my wifes's false 498a case

Adv Vinod Sir.

There are 2 possibilities.

Either Mr. Santosh here, has hidden some information, else, she had never wanted to live a married life. (I presume the 2nd one being true)

@ Mr. Santosh, you're in A-Bail. Hence, no need to worry. This is now-a-days an usual phenomena among some of the girls, now, they will file another case upon you stating "Marriage could not consumate owning husband is  impotent" & seeking annlment of marriage. But again, do not worry about it & pls hold on to your emotions, you need to be very strong at this point of time. Pls do not think as your life is torn apart. You need to take some bold steps now.

• Collect the seizure list (Police report in which they have collected the streedhan report)
• Call her parents, and ask them what they want to do. Fighting a legal battle, will make her daughter remains un-married till the case gets won/disposed by either party.
• If they want to close the case on the earliest, then, pls sit in a table, discuss and close with a MCD. (Be super professional during this discussion, no emotions, no egos, no blaming, etc.) just simple discussion about the future cource of action thats all.
• If they agree for the MCD, then, pls ask her to close the criminal cases which she filed against you.
• There will be money involvement in that discussion for sure, Hence, prepare yourself for that. Whatever money will be involved, and if you're ok to pay that, make sure 1st Half to be paid in 1st motion date and 2nd half on 2nd motion date and only after closure of all those crimincal charges.
• If they dont agree and file an Annulment case, do not worry. Be cool. Just think that, you're way above what she actually deserved. Hence, no need to be depressed.
• Never tell the court that your marriage didnt consumated (whatever be the reason), let her prove it. Since, she will be filing the case, its her burden to prove her allegations.
• Court might ask you to go for potency test. Which is a little painful (Ive gone thru this test)  but you need to take the pain to complete the test. (In case if this gets ordered, I shall inform you about the tests and tips for it) 
• During that time, probably the case might go to Counselling. Again, you need to be very professional about it.
• In the mean time, let the 498A case starts & discuss with a good lawyer with all relevent truths.
• If she fails to prove the 498A charges & by the time if you manage to get the annulment case disposed, file a divorce against her reason being cruelty, on the grounds of
  • Creulty on framing false 498A against you and your family members.
  • Stating you impotent causing social insult etc towards you and your family.

I'm sorry Santosh for being blunt, I'm facing something similar thing in my life also.

I jointed Armed forces at the age of 18 and since then I'm the sole earner of my family. I contributed my earning in my sister and two older brother. I am the younger one and I keep my emotions and love for my wife. But Its my unfate that I got married with such kind of girl. She demanded 4 lakhs in first meeting in August, 2015 as compensation. Though she didn't come infront of us but forwarded message with her family member in the sechedule meeting. We want to speak with her personally but she never appeared before us and always forward message along with her family members.

I'm not hidding any information here. You can feel my mental condtion and a guy who joined Army at age of 18 and become the lone survival of his family member. Did 3 marriages at my own expenses and kept all my emotion and love for my wifes only.

I didn't attend college and hence therefore no love affair at all. I really do not know why she refuse to sleep with me just after marrier but she slept only once she returned back from her parental house in March, 2015. But she didn't allow me to do physical relation ship.