The bank / Lenderhas to give notice under the under the Sarfaesi Act 2002, rule 13(2) along with the complete details of the outstanding amount, the date of NPA, and also the details of the Security in the hands of the Bank, /Lender, the notice gives the borrower time to settle within 60 days or lodge protest in case of discrepencies and that is required by Law to be replied in 7 days by the Bank/Lender. The remedy with the borrower lies by filing pettion before the DRT in whose jusrisdiction he comes to file petition under sec 17(1) and seek stay against the proceedings. Normally, stays are granted when the PO DRT find that the hardship of the Borroiwer is genuine and also when the bank is harassing the borrower for no solid reason, whatsoever. A practising lawyer with DRT can guide you the best, but please act promptly as delay to stop the Bank/Lender asap, could be fatal.