Dear Kalaiselvan sir,
Could you please give me a good solution how to proceed with my case. I got registered marriage in the year 2009 Dec 18th and we both are classmates and we never lived together in one house since i told him to wait for his parents approval, but since time changed he joined with his parents and applied for divorce and after applying for divorce he stayed in my house for one month and he compelled me to have physical relationship stating we both are legally married and that happened. Also after a month he went back to his parents place for his brothers marriage and then he stated because of his parents compulsion he appled for divorce in the month of Nov 2011 before he stayed in my house itself and i did not received any notice from court and later he stated papers are nothing but our love will withstand. Meanwhile he called me to court once and i appeared in the court on Nov8th 2012 for the first time knowing nothing and i was directed towards counsellor and asked to go and live with him. Later i never appeared to the court thereafter and in the month of June 2013 I came to know that expartee order was about to pass as i never responded the court which was found by my brother who is a lawyer ( where i discussed with him all what happened) and now with the help of my brother i have sent him a set aside notice where he got it by signing in the month of Nov and he didn't appear in the court on Dec 2nd for first hearing.Meanwhile with his parents he was about to do secret marriage and i stopped that by giving complaint in commissiner office. He appeared in the court on 7th Jan 2014 and the court order him to file a counter on march 23rd 2014
Now i want to live with him, the reason filed by them early was null and void where it seems he and his parents called me to have reception where i didn't go which is a total lie.
He utilised me in all means and got huge money from me as well, even now though he is not speaking to me he texts me and ask for financial help and i am doing that also. Also he use all s*x languages and send messages asking me to come to out of station to enjoy.
Now he is afraid of his parents and his parents are against me and not allowing us to live together.My husband is pretending to his parents as if he is not having any conversation or contact with me, but daily he message me and asking me to come out.
My question is
Can i file a RCR through collector office where they will call him and enquire. I want someone to call his parents also and enquire since they should know their son's activity.
What is Counter file and what will happen if he file a counter and what will happen if he is not filing a counter.
One of the advocate is telling that i am not taking strict action against him thats the reason they behave like this.
They are in a intention that somehow they will get divorce and they can proceed with another marriage for their son in their caste.I spent nearly 6 lacs and still last week also transferred Rs.9700 to him.
I don't want to get cheated as I love him so much and he utilised me in all ways.
Please suggest me how to proceed and find ways to live with him