if anyone have more suggestions related to my question and matter please post ,
Thanks
Nishhant (Business) 09 July 2009
if anyone have more suggestions related to my question and matter please post ,
Thanks
Vishwa (translator) 10 July 2009
Dear Nishant
I can understand your feeling upset that people are talking about all other things but not addressing your specific problem. However, this is a public forum where people can express their views as they please. If you want real answers, then you must deal with a lawyer of your choice paying him his due (or undue) fees.
As a layman, I can tell you that once the matter has gone to poiice and courts, your marriage is really finished. Once you accept this fact perhaps you can move on with your life.
As for your 498.a case, it is likely to drag on for years, draining your resources. If I were you, I would bring pressure on your wife to withdraw her case. Perhaps she has cultivated other relationships while you were abroad. She must surely have a weak point somewhere. Even a lawyer cannot dispute that attack is the best form of defence.
Vishwa
Carlisle Collins (Samaritan) 13 July 2009
This 498a issue was presented before the Forum over two months ago. I’m certain Mr. Nishant’s predicament existed long before then. A myriad of plausible actions were also suggested from competent members of the Forum and the general intricacies vociferously discussed. It seems to me that our ‘e-client’ has so far been statically reclined in the deliberation stage but offering new/additional information incrementally that is only serving to change the viability of any proposed course of action. At this point in time, I’m inclined to recall the wisdom of an ancient sage who observed, “There’s a time to ponder and pick your nose for gold; and, there’s a time for decisive action”. I think it’s high time Mr. Nishant engaged the services of a competent attorney who’d put all that nose picking time to constructive use.
Nishhant (Business) 13 July 2009
yea , we have already engaged the qualified attorneies to look after the case ............ as the legal matter would only be solved through legal channels.
I am really thankfull to all of you to contribute your valuable guidences ......... need to say to Vishwa that before making comments one should read the complete matter ........ should not enter in even public disscusions if he is not aware with the topic ....... rest i am leaving on him that if his case would be the matter then how he will deal with his wife .
Thanks to all
Nishhant
Khaleel Ahmed Mohammed (Advocate ) 13 July 2009
I agree with Mr.Kiran.
san (social service) 13 August 2009
beware of lawyers for whom compromise is the first word. A good lawyer will leave that decision upto you. These are the ones, who sell their clients. Sure enough, in the long term, one can compromise, but, no unjust terms. Also quash is not that rare nowadays, please have a look at recent SC judgements, regarding quash.
Deekshitulu.V.S.R (B.Sc, B.L) 14 August 2009
Mr San
I am in this field for the past 36 years. I have conducted many cases under Sec. 498-A. I am also presently the Addl.P.P. for fast track court at our place. I deal with 302, 304-B, etc. In almost all the cases when the matter is given schedule, the parties are compromising it and the prosecution witnesses are turning hostile.
What I am trying to point out is when a client comes to you with a cose, he seeks an advise. So as far as Kiran sab is concerned, he advises for a compromise, and this is the practice here also. If not at one point of timeor the other the same advise will be given by the lawyer, looking at the tenor of judgments of H.Cs and Apex Court.
So insted of waiting upto the last minute and spending the money of the client, it is advised that a compromise is a welcome step, so that the client will have some peace
And simply because compromise is suggested, we cannot coin a lawyer as a cheat or an useless fellow or that he joined with the, other side. Even at the compromise the client will be there and after his satisfaction only the compromise will be recorded. It is not done by the lawyer, without the knowledge of the client.
Hence keeping every step of the court procedure in mind, it is generally suggested that a compromise be made in a matter. OK the decision is with the client, he has to exercise his mind and then the lawyer takes the back seat.
As you know the decisions touching secs 304-B, 498-A, and such other laws which give protection to women, are so serious, that the life of a groom will be totally spoiled. I would say that these laws are mostly misused, and abused.
Why not similar laws for men who are suffering excruciating mental agony and torture in the hands of women. Just think of the issue. No answer
Bye
Deekshitulu.V.S.R (B.Sc, B.L) 14 August 2009
I may continue
Mr Kiran is right, so also Collins, and every body looking at this issue. Every decision or act of lawyer depends on the facts and circumstances of each case, and more so the practical problems that have to be faced in a court of law, and the circumstances around the issue. AndI respect every thought of a lawyer. I will always try to err on the right side of a problem, and the safetty of my client is most important.
Bye
Carlisle Collins (Samaritan) 14 August 2009
Deeksh*tulu Saheb: With due respect, Sir, don’t you now see why we have a Justice System that operates in similar manner as putting the cart before the horse? There’s no rationale in either setting. Certainly, we can handle the complex but how does one deal with issues that are confusing, DELIBERATELY confusing, and deliberately confusing for all?
jmale (sdsd) 07 March 2010
Sathyama Jayathe ! Innocents will never face any issues. Our great law will protect us. Mera Bharat Mahan !
Having said this (lol .. lmao)
My advice: get a gun / cynide and use it against all their family members not just your better half :).
Take care of evidence:
Phone( simcards registered in dead people's name - destroy sim card after job + even the mobile (because even IMEI no can be tracked) ), if you are using hitmen get them from outside town( north get south south get north),do not show face , get small number of people .. 2 maximum (large groups r not effective)
if you have enough cash pay police and get the job done by them (yep .. :) ), if you are such a cash cow, then do one thing .. get arrested n go to jail and do all the above and below mentioned points from there, after mission is executed + 2 weeks come out n go to a long picnic not with parents (let your parents go alone)
its better to face a murder charges in court than 498a
i will explain how: court is full of corrupt people .. after the murder .. you will be in jail (if chargesheeted - if you dont cover your tracks - if you dont get AB (its easy to get for murder than in 498a :) )) for some time .. if you are such a nut that you have not taken care of above, i suggest surrender in court with media - cry and say that you are being framed and get bail - enquire about the judge and APP - bail will be easy - then pay some bribe to Additional PP .. he will not oppose bail . once you are out of bail .. then its very easy .. to break the case ..
in jail - eat special food (you have to pay), there will be god fathers - be friendly - but dont be a jerk and start showing off - like dont tell everyone you are Sun tuzu - keep mouth shut and cry (good for your eyes) , stay in addmision ward (not with criminal - there will be brokers - mostly the doctors - they will ask 5000 you say ok - pay in instalments), dont fight with anyone, if your jail has games like carrom play it, listen to other's stories and develop your knowledge - question how they could have escaped, dont do manual job in Jail (even if police hits you - earn respect), speak in english to jail supernindent, and do excercise ( join the long timers - foreign nationals for drugs - they will teach you new techniques in excercising)
- dont drink in jail - sleep properly - smile and be merry - but if attacked (not threatened, but attacked) break the opposite guys head (he should not die though :) ) - you can get hospital for this :) .. - study - think of big thing, real big things, you will be surprised how Jail can teach you - yours is a petty case - but you are in a place better than 1000... IIT/IIMs puttogether - make best use of it .. like I went to the meditation hall too :) !! and argued the concepts the teachers told us in english ; the astronishment of other undertrails was so much - i earned respect - I have been to many countries - seen many great things .. but let me tell you mate, nothing like Jail .. I love Jail :) !! ..
God has choosen you to undergo this training (not punishment) for some purpose - search that purpose.
there are many ways to get out of jail .. medical (giving money to jail people - they will take you to hospital - where you can eat sleep study etc - dont flirt with the nurses .. remember dog :) .. they are there for service not for fun .. they are not 498a wifes )
consult a advocate before and after you do the thing .. and be carefull with the advocate .. he should not blackmail you .. plan everything ..
this route:
no need of divorce - no need to fear or running behind dogs -You dont have to waster n years, get into depression or watch your parents age out and die ..
and during murder case,its you vs police( who dont really care after chargesheet and who are overloaded represented by the Additional PP who is generally corrupt to the core) .. but during 498a its you vs pack of real big dirty dogs( represented by efficient lawyer who will take money from both sides)
P/s: my advice is not logically arranged, not properly worded, i just wrote what came to my mind, hey you are free to ignore it - you have n number of dear advocate friends to advice you -follow them - iam not pro/against anyone advice - i wont debate if anyone contradicts me (no time :( ) !! - Just remember (convict) Rathore is f***king abha rathore in AC room, while you are reading this :) !!
Carlisle Collins (Samaritan) 08 March 2010
Hmmm … Strong-spirited words; no doubt written under influence of strong “spirits”! Well, being a drinking man myself, I can appreciate the drunken logic … Hic! But; Pray, tell me: Why bother with the gun and cyanide when you could assassinate the Mark in court – using our (in)Justice System’s very own indigenous Weapons of Mass Emasculation: The pseudo-cops, pseudo-Tribunal, pseudo-testimony, and ethically flexible pseudo-advocates! And, Oh! Lest I forget, plenty of Money-Honey to sway deliberations in your favor. I was told a long time ago that India is where the Impossible becomes the Possible – for a price! Lord! Have we truly become a legion of harlots in a disgraceful enterprise masquerading as nuns?