Dear Querist,
From the facts it appears that the Hon'ble HC must have formed an prima facie opinion in your favour before passing a stay in DV case. If in the meanwhile any settlement is arrived at by you with otherside, the same may be reduced into writing and settlement/compromise deed should be broguht forth in the pending proceeding in HC. That being so, Hon'ble HC while exercising vast discretionary jurisdiction u/s 482 CrPC, may direct the DV case quashed, recording said chain of events and also while doing, the HC may direct for recordal of mutual consent between the parties and dispose off the matter by the lower/session court.
Trust this would suffce.
Rabin Majumder
Advocate-on-Record
Supreme Court of India
New Delhi.