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Deeply Hurt (PM)     09 November 2013

Rcr vs divorce

Dear Experts,


In light of the wife filing a false 498a case, with no intention other than to harass the husband & his family, it destabilizes the husband from trusting the wife & family ever again.

Especially when the husband purposely has gone only through various measures of reconciliation through  personal & family elders as well as mediation / counselling in the interest of keeping his marriage alive by saving it (whereas the wife & her family have resorted to filing false cases); If none of these has any bearing on the wife's behaviour and she remains stubborn it leaves no other option for the husband except to part ways from the marriage relationship.

Based on the above could you please throw some light on the following:

  1. Which is better strategy:  to file RCR or Divorce?
  2. What are the benefits of filing RCR?
  3. What are the disadvantages of filing RCR?
  4. What are the benefits of filing Divorce?
  5. What are the disadvantages of filing Divorce?


The reason for such a query is there seems to be conflicting ideas in this forum that filing RCR is good as it will safeguard the husband vs filing Divorce is better.


So I hope if experts could throw some light on the above questions, it can help a lot of people who are confused on what path to take.



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 1 Replies


(Guest)

RCR is calling back the devil.

Divorce is telling the devil do not come back.


No. 1.  File RCR and devil may come back and make more drama, make false complaints in police station vis a vis file a 498a, domestic violence case against you and your parents, sisters, brothers, their wives, their husbands etc.


File divorce and devil may end up doing No. 1 and also file 125 crpc for maintenance, claim interim alimony.


In all  of this what is benefit and what is a disadvantage you will have to think deeply all by yourself, rather thinking why marriage was necessary would be more apt in this situation.


My suggestion would be:


Once things have turned so very sour like filing false cases, you go sit behind bars, bail etc has already happened then there is no point in thinking about getting back together.


Even if you kiss n make up, the amount of humiliation undergone  will be deep settled inside your head which can never be forgotten and thus even if one would unite, the fire may show up after a decade or so, resulting in drastic circumstances.


So better part ways as gentlemen.


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