Regarding Notice I received from Family Counselling(POLICE))

What do U mean by I have already filed a dairy in my home town PS? When u have received a notice from the family counselling center(Police),better attend it,instead of inviting more problems.There could be some solution arrived for UR marital life.

Buddy, just get ready for some action. Be prepared, may be she's setting you up to pay monthly maintenance that she couldn't do it in your home town. 

 If you're currently residing in Bangalore, then you very well oblige to their notice. Here's how it may go. As pariah is a NGO they will try to negotiate and get the matter sorted out amicably, hence there's no harm going there. 

a) If the demands are high: She can slap a maintenance case in B'lore and you're stuck there. (https://www.saveindianfamily.org/press-release-mens-rights-group-strongly-objects-move-to-make-dowry-law-compoundable-demands-bailability/)

Guess what, while the maintenance case is going on (for years) her lawyer will file for interim maintenance. Which means you have to pay her maintenance while she's fighting against you. This may not be true if she's earning. There has been recent judgements  when a petitioner was denied maintenance due to the fact that she was working. 

Update: Here's that link. https://menrightsindia.net/maintenance-crpc-125-judgments

Are you in talking terms with her? You should take your wife on a good dinner date, flowers etc. etc. in such a way that you (men in general) demonstrate a class and she will definitely think if she's smart enough to loose a Hero like you. If you somehow set her mind that you're a prized possession, she ain't going leave you. You have to build up the attraction. 

This is a public forum so, I can't go further but I think she needs some special attention from you. She may feel lonely when you're with your family. 

We men say my way or the highway and miss the end game. I believe that communication at a deeper level is important. Be her prized possession. 

attn. to @ Not a Wussy.
appreciate your practical view. bt hope it may applies vice a versa if m not wrong.

I absolutely agree with "Not A Wussy" for his practical hints to sort out  the problem and live a life of peace.  Follow it if you can.  Next, I add that you say "parihar Family Counseling centre (Police)", if that is so, then the matter there is not so simple.   It is not NGO.  It has the power to mediate between the estranged couples on the basis of the complaint received by the party.   But if the complaint contains the ingredients of S.498-A and if the parties do not reach to a amicable settlement, then this centre refer the complaint to concerned police station for registration of FIR under Section 498-A and other related sections, if advised so.  So, appear there and try to resolve the matter amicably.  Otherwise, the matter may snowball into a FIR and later on requires anticipatory/regular bail.

Prabhakar - Advocate

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Legal Aid panelist - Family Law - Central Delhi (Tis Hazari)

@prabhakar advocate, thanks for the update. My first instinct when I read PARIHAR(Police) notice got me to thinking that counseling might be the tip of ice berg (I've experienced the pattern.) But, since she didn't apply for 498a earlier and reading in this forum about PARIHAR as a NGO, I put a full stop on thinking that route. I'm glad you brought it up. Thanks and appreciate your update.

1st you should attend the so called mediation. Impressing wife ,with flowers, dinners ....hmm its a old game. Now-a-days they are smarter than men. God can not fully read there mind, then how a man can read it. Try to get the photo copy of her complaint. i think you should prepare yourself for incoming Tornedo. All the best Dude