The reply by the accused in any criminal complaint under section 498A etc. IPC should be very simple in language.
Secondly there should be general denial of all charges made against the accused.
Thirdly each every charge made in complaint should be denied as false and answered to best of the knowledge by giving their side of the dowry.
The general allegations in such complaints is dowry demand from the time of marriage till date of making the complaint to the police, in all these instances there should be reply as false allegations being made as there was no demand anytime for dowry or expensive articles from the wife side.
There is another allegation which is made, is that all the dowry/gift items/articles given to the wife from her parents were kept in the personal possession of the accused without the permission and consent of the wife, a simple denial to this, followed by that all the listed items/articles are in the possession of the wife, if any bigger items/article lie at the house of husband can be marked as available at their place which the complainant is free to take it back with her anytime she so desire.
There is allegation of abuse, beating, hitting, keeping the wife hungry for whole day etc. in such there should be clear mention of denial as well there exists no medical record of any beating or hitting to the wife anytime during her stay at the matrimonial home, there are witnesses available at the matrimonial home who can state the true position in the case about the best available treatment being given to the wife during her stay there. Any photographs available showing the good moments where wife was enjoying good time with husband and other family members should be attached along the reply, also the true copy of tickets, hotel room booking where the newly wed couple travelled and stayed together should also be attached.
Along with all this the misbehavior of the wife and her parents, leveling false charges, threatening with false criminal complaints with various authorities of dowry demand and domestic violence etc. should also be mentioned in details with proving date/time when such incidences happened and name of witnesses (anyone even family members) in whose presence these were done.
You don’t need an advocate to give such reply which as an educated person you can do.