Dear Sir,
I got married in April 2012. But my married life was not smooth from the day one onward. She used to behave in different way (strangely) occasionally and after sometime she become normal. We had stayed together for only 20 days (not continuously) as i am working in Bangalore and she is working in an IT firm in hometown. Infact she is not residing with my parents from June-July onwards because she dont want to stay with my family in my absence and another reason is her mother is staying alone. So i told her to stay with her mother. I used to travel to hometown minimum twice a month, that time she will come and stay with me, that was our plan. By the time she got a call from an employer, Bangalore, as She was trying to relocate to bangalore. Unfortunately i was sent to Delhi for offical work on that week and i informed here well in advance that i will not available at that time and suggested her to talk to the employer to reschedule the interview. She reached Bangalore with her mother and she called me to find out the routes.
She had did her interview well. She told me she will stay in her friends house till i back. i reached bangalore the next day and give her call. By the time she had reached my hometown (trivandrum). She told me that she had traced my cell phone and it was showing Bangalore. She was in an impression that i was in town and don't want to meet her. After a month, she came to my house and collected all her belongings and left the house without telling anything to my parents. Her mother was with her and told to my parents that she need some items for office function.
After the Bangalore incident, we dont have much contacts because she dont want to trust me. She was ready to stay with me if i am willing to leave my parents and stay with her family..
In November, i went to Trivandrum to talk and resolve this issue in the presence of a lawyer. The lawyer is our family friend. Before that the same day afternoon, my wife and her mother came to my house. we had started conversation regarding the issues. Suddenly she got upset and start make loud noise. She torn her dress and shouting to my mummy. She start rolling on the floor. i was seeing all these things but we got struck. finally she got hold of my mummy's neck and try to break mummys mangalsutra. By the time i had intervened and separated both. She was still shouting and neighbors start coming. We called police and police took her and her mother to station.
Now she had filed case under 498A, cruelity etc. She told to counselor that i had relationship with another girl also.
Now the case is in court. She is demanding for 10 lakhs to withdraw the case. She had put all us in case (mummy daddy and myself). she had attached my ancestor property to court also demanding for compensations
Please advice.
