Rahul (AE) 17 June 2012
Adv Archana Deshmukh (Practicing Advocate) 17 June 2012
Decide what you want. If you want her back then, file a petition for restitution of conjugal rights.
If you want divorce, then file for divorce on the ground of desertion.
In any case you will be called for counselling and perhaps matter may be resolved there. However, she may backfire with maintainance, 498A, DV cases.
Rahul (AE) 18 June 2012
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Rahul (AE) 21 June 2012
Rahul (AE) 21 June 2012
Madam what will be advantages anddisadvantages of filling petition for restitution of conjugal rights.
randomethic (Professional) 22 June 2012
If she had a physical relationship before she met and married you, why should it have shocked you? Did you make her feel that you will not accept her once she told you?
Ideally, she should have let the past remain in the past and not shared this with you at all. For the 4 months that you did stay together, how was that time? Were you happy together?
Some introspection might help here. If all your problems started after she told you, then that is the cause of things going wrong and the way she acted. I will suggest you find a means to speak to her (email??) and share your feelings before jumping the gun with a lawyer and cases.
randomethic (Professional) 22 June 2012
Correction, you stayed together for 30 days when she told you. but the point remains the same. How you reacted to her could have very well determined whether she stayed or left. If at any time, you used her past to berate, insult or hurt her or she felt that you were unwilling to accept her, she left.
I'm not saying her actions or leaving were justified but instead of blaming her for everything, focus on your role in the situation because that's the only thing you have any control over and can change.