Greetings!!!
we have been living separately for nearly 2.5 years. My husband filed RCR last year and I expressed my willingness to join him. But he came only on the first hearing date and never turned up for any hearings further. In between I tried for a reconciliation, but he refused to continue the matrimonial bond further and insisted for mutual divorce instead. When I refused, he challenged that he would withdraw the petition and apply for divorce. We have a female child who has completed 1.5 years. Regarding her custody, he said he would be leaving to my choice. Since, he is not willing to reconcile even for the child's sake, I would atleast like to ensure some financial security for her. But he is not willing to pay the child maintenance also.
My concerns are
(a) My advocate says getting child maintenance is difficult, since I am employed, and it differs from case to case. Is that true?
(b) If not, can I claim one time settlement from him? My advocate says that garnishment applies only for govt employees. He is employed in a private firm. I too prefer the same, as I would like the things to get settled at the earliest.
(c) In case of one time settlement, how much can the court order him to pay? He is earning 30000 per month and has got no assets, but has got many financial debts. I am also earning the same amount, and I dont have any assets in my name, but one flat, owned by my parents. I have no debts. I am not asking the exact amount, but Please let me atleast know some reasonable amount, he can pay or I can claim, as I am worried about my daughter's future, without her father.
(d)Will the court consider his financial debts, when it comes to child support? He is very keen in getting divorce without paying anything and wants to get away freely. Is there any possibilities for that?
Kindly help, as I am very much worried about my daughter's career and future.