Very close friend of mine has asked me to get the help/advise from the people about the behaviour of his only son
I am narreting the agony in his own words . Please help him
"I have been facing various problems in my marrigae life , the very reason moved me towards spiritualism. i have been working with TATA Organisation for nearly 23 years . By grace of god i do not have any financial problems as my wife too works for a bank. My father expired in 1982 on my 25th birth day He was working College . My mother who is now 75 years stays with me . I have high regards & love for my mother as she supported us in life & sloughed for our welfare. I regard my mother as my first guru & try to do everything possible.
As far as my marriage life is concerned , i regret that it has never been smooth as we literally fight every day as we both us are short tempered.I have bad habit of abusing However i have blessing in disguise as i have very poor memory which helps me patch up immediately.
I have a son who is now 17 years upto 7 th std he studied in a school where nearly all the students are from middle class family .He took admission in 8 th std. in a convent school where most of the boys are from afflunt families Last year he passed out SSC . His behaviour has literally ruined our life . When he was in SSC last year he didn't study for last three months .He used to threatned us that he will not appear for exams if he doesn't get guitar or cricket kit etc. I had spent nearly Rs.10000/- FOR MEETING HIS DEMANDS DURING VERY EXAM DAYS. I had to arrange for the special coaching as he used to bunk his tution classes I still remember those days when i used to wake him up on exam days by literally lying down to his feet .He appeared for exam & passed ssc in March 07 with 75% marks. After results he had shown interest for Diploma in Engineering & according to his wish he took admission for engineering. He has hardly attended the college for 4to 5 months he has suddenly stopped attending the college on the pretext that he wants to appear for Hsc in science for joining Merchant navy. We never forced him to select any particular career He has been given complete freedom
After leaving the college for last two months ,after his breakfast he goes out to nukkad near the college or other places & mix with the students engaged in students union he smokes heavily & heard /ovrheard started drinking
There are many instances where he bits us & scolds us . He does not have any respect towards us
i am really worried about his future
We consulted psychiatrist. He has been diagnosed as anti social personality disorder. But his relation with members of the society is very cordial
Now a days after such happenings many times i have started doubting very existence of god. many times he thratens us to committ suicide after leaving a suicide name mentiong my name or my wife's name as responsible for the suicide.We are worried in case he committs suicide what shall be criminal law implications on us Also reuest the readres to advise right type treatment to bring him to the main stream
Kindly advise my friend how to bring his son to the main steam .Please share your expriences or such cases observed by you
