This is the reason..all family courts insists for the presence of parties...But if he is a trust worthy friend, how can you say that he was pressurized and he agreed to the terms of 13B? But anyhow you can withdraw your consent for the said agreement explaining your financial situation, but your character and conduct will be noted by the court for future...and this will be a minus for you....Just think once....
Consent once given is not final...and you have no other option except to take a plea of accepting her for reunion..then only you can escape...but if your marriage is irretrievably broken...then reunion will be nothing but hell for you and for your family members.......
Solomon
Advocate
High Court of Andhra Pradesh