"An 'Ex partee Decree' is a decree passed against a defendant in absentia.despite serving of summons,where on the dates of hearing only the plaintiff appears and the defendant does not appear either in person or through a lawye,and the Court may hear the suuit ex parte and pass a decree against the defendant"
Keeping in mind the Ex-parte decree of divorce passed by the Family Court and your waiting for next 90 days the period of appeal, still there has been no move on the part of the respondent, you can go for remarriage as it is on no use sitting for anything to happen now from his side more so it will be very difficult for him to explain his move for getting the ex-parte decree of divorce revoked now.
In such cases it has been mostly decided by the Supreme Court as well many High Courts in India the spouse against whom ex-parte decree of divorce is passed is not getting much relief as far revoking the decree of divorce is concerned, maximum financial relief in the form of cost may be allowed to such spouse but that too depending on the facts and circumstance not in every case.