Save me from my wife

Sad to hear your case

10s of 1000s of husbands are affected in similar cases 

Our society, army, navy, airforce, medical profession, software institutions and many other essential and important services are paralysed due to such women filing false complaints against honest husband(s)

While I pity your state, please sit back and think and list your strengths Vs weakness 

what are your strengths ?

1. you seem to have recordings of your wife's infedility - this is a stength

2. you must also be having proof of her infertility; Treatment records at Army hospitals ; infertility itself is NOT a cause for divorce, but will become strong IF you use this to proove the root cause of your fights ...i.e. root cause is her infertility and infidelity and NOT your fault

3. so far your superiros seems to be understanding you ? am I right here ?

what are your weaknesses 

4. you have to leave emotion aside and think logically

5. you have a life and carrer ahead of you 

6. your wife is NOT interested in you and has probably found another bakra 

so...

I think you should try every possiblity to re work this marriage ..... I think you have already tried this ...but try sufficient counselling, talking to her parents or friends or common friends etc etc 

IF none of the above works, I THINK YOU HAVE A STRONG CASE

.....AND .....

7. IF she is ready for a mutual consent divorce WITHOUT money let her go and try and re start your life. DO NOT rush into another marriage mess ...that will be even worse than the first one 

8. if she insists on monthly maintenance , refuse it

9. IF matter goes to court, please remember one thing : the final aim of all these women is money [maintenance / property etc] and vengence [ arresting you or your parents on false cases] and liberation [get married to the next bkra] : try and reduce maintenance and pain  as far as possible because she is ALSO employed and she is the one pushing for divorce and then bring in all the proof you have 

10. I think you need some time to sit back and work out your own emotions and plans and move forward

11. do NOT file for divorce read here for more : https://bit.ly/Uokcev

12. do NOT file any civil cases : read here for more : https://bit.ly/QQq6Dy

13, sit back , relax and think

14. search for other men's rights / family welfare / save family organisations and link up with other male victims; an experience is worth more than 100 books ..so network with husbands !!

Thnks Vinayak jee for your  advise.

Here i want to tell you that i am retairing from Navy in Apr 2014 and as of now she is my legal wife and nominy in all my official records. I recieved my pension forms which required her signature for that she is refusing to sign and will only sign if I appolise in written for charges she is frame on me and counter sign by my seniors. For that I refuse.

Sir here i want to know that

Recording in phone will accepted by the court as avidance.

I have her 03 months Phone calls records (SIM was on her father's name) which shows all incoming and outgoing call of her boyfriend.

Here i want to tell u that she confece all about this to  one of my Known person and told him that this was only to teach me a lession. Not a serious relation ship.

please advise me.

Hai Manoj,

Dont burst, nothing happens when false cases are on.  As you legally illeterate many of the women take it as an advantage of filing of most of the cases which are meant for their safety.  Seriously saying domestic violence case cannot be filed by any women upon your parents when she is not staying with them, so your parents are safe.  comming on to you, you said that the phone conversations are recorded through the software present in the phone but the sim is in the name of her father which never attracts the indian evidence act, so try to get some other evidences for your security.  Regarding filing of 498A dowry cases, you can get help from various judgements given from the apex courts or contact us with full details which i can help you a lot in this regard.  Manoj, without any sort of material i cannot advise but be patient, after reading the fir or the complaint copy only i could get a picture about the cases filed by your wife.  Dont worry about the cases.

thanks sharma jee for ur advise, but now the problem is she is not signing my pension form. Now what shuld I do? and  as she has complain to NWC Delhi a inqury has come to Vaso-da-Gama police staion so Inspecto called me and tell me that tell your wife to take back her complain or i will take action against u. so I ask for the copy of complain but he refused to give me. Than I spoke to my wife, she is asking me in written that u have to accept all aligation, which i refused. Till to day Ihave not recieved any call from Police. Now tell me what action they will take against me? And what should I do now? please advise me.

Regards

Manoj sharma

I dont know what is happening with Indian family. Everyday, when ever I visit LCI, I find various queries from men tribe like Save me from my wife, my father and mother commit suicide due to my  wife's false complaint, how to bring back my wife, my wife brainwash by her mother, father, uncle etc etc etc, and such queries are never coming forth from the women tribe. Better be governed by customary laws. Ofcourse, customary laws like anyother laws has it's own drawback like one do not know whether the husband and the wife are married or divorce, whether the child is illegitimate or legitimate, whether the wife is pregnant by the husband or by other man, husband cooking for the wife and children etc, etc, but life goes on in simple tranquil state. Long Live customary Laws!

Manoj,

Pls join SIFF Immidiately.....and attend local meetings. U will get full support plus free of cost legal knowledge.