Why your account is suddenly deleted. Even if you are not from Tamilnadu, I may be able to help you to get in touch with an appropriate women's orgnisa tion if I know your place of residence.
If you go to court through a women's cell or otherwise you have to re-write your narrative.
You got married at a young age of 19. Was it a love marriage or an arranged marriage? Have you got your parents, brother, sister or other blood relations? What are their attitude towards you? Are you a Hindu or belong to some other religion? Are your first husband and second colleague Hindus or belong to some other religion?
Irrespective of your answer to the above questions your case is like this.
You had a marriage which turned out to be a bad marriage. You were employed and one of your colleagues appeared to be sympathetic, understanding and supportive of you. Under the circumstances you came close to each other resulting in a live-in-relationship. You lived like that for years like a husband and wife though you were actually not so. When your colleague fell ill you looked after him in the hospital asthough you were his wife. It is a great thing to be of help when one is hospital. No relative comes to be on one's bedside except one who has stakes. Who can have stakes except a wife? Your daughter, who was growing up was also with you all through the years. Your colleague was like a step-father to your daughter. She is now grown up. She is 7 years old. She will also have views about things around. Besides living like husband and wife you also had a marriage like celebration along with your other colleagues. When you were living thus your colleague suggested or even otherwise you felt and thought that you should get divorce from your previous marriage and formalise your relationship with your colleague by a formal marriage. You got a divorce. Your first husband once again proved himself by his conduct during the divorce proceedings. The court accepted your side and relieved you from the first marriage. Now your colleague is backing out. What is the reason? (1) He is a coward. He is not able to face his relatives.or (2) he enjoyed s*x and companionship with you. He had somebody to look after him when he was in hospital. Now when everything is over and he has got all the juice he throws you out. These are typical of some males. You cannot marry him and live with him as his wife unless he also wants. But you can surely sue him for compensation.