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Venkat (Prop)     29 August 2011

Second time divorce

I need someone to please help me asap. i got my 2nd marriage ( after getting divoice from the 1st wife) to a similar women who also got divoiced from her husband. Marriage took place in march 2011 ( 6 Month back) Since we both are divoiced so i thought that the life will be better as we suffered the same way. Now, I am realizing that she has been given divoirced by her first husband on basis of that her mind is not stable and offen she got short temper and started talking or insulting anyone includes me in front of everyone. more over if her some of demands are not listened she started threathing by shouting that she will do suicide by hanging or so. i am being hassarshed by her for past 3 month like hell. I my self tried to pacify her many time but it doent work. My life is become hell and i dont know what to do. 

i also got her first divoice court copy where it has been clearly mention that she was not fitt to live with her husband and that document has many negative thing written against her. Thoes negative thing were the main reason that her first husband got divoice with much problem and even court never instructed him to pay some kind of compension to her. Is it possible to apply my 2nd divoirce based on her first divoirce document? Please someone help me at the earliest.



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M.Sheik Mohammed Ali (advocate)     29 August 2011

you just file second divorce stating that i know she is divorced person, but i dont know her negative thoughts and behaviours , i recently findout that she is not fit for matrimonial life so kindly give me divorce then only you produced the documents.

you from ?

if you are in chennai ?

come to my office

68/12, CIT NAGAR,

T.Nagar,

chennai

 

Venkat (Prop)     29 August 2011

Thank you Sheik Sir.

I am from Coimbatore and requst you to give you number + email Id so that I can contact you. My id is raghuboys@gmail.com

 

Thanks once again and look forward to talk to you.

Raghu


(Guest)
Why all the time you people take decision for divorce?? Your will is ill and suffering from psychological problem. You need to take her to good psychiatrist. According to law you have to wait for one year then you can dissolve the marriage by divorce. Still there are six months left, get her treat well first.

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     29 August 2011

1. Is the brief smell of grounds for divorce as per existing framework under civil marriage laws ?

2. Is the advise by one of the openning ld. brother quo Law ?


He does not have enough grounds for divorce the way he has stated and moreover the marriage is young on time line so exceptional hardships grounds also goes for a toss !

Venkat (Prop)     29 August 2011

dear shally, You may not be aware that the same was done with her first husband and could resolve it. Its highly impossible for me to pacify her for the same as she will never listen and i think she is sure that she will ruin my life by then. Thanks for your reply but i affraid taking her to phychiatrist will not happend. She will surely will not come for the same. Any advice from you now? thanks Raghu

Roshni B.. (For justice and dignity)     29 August 2011

In any divorce case,it's natural for a husband to put exaggerated allegations on his wife.Her 1st husband must have also done the same.That doesn't make his allegations truthful.

 

Rather I feel you are not adjusting yourself.

You too had a divorce.Didn't you?Don't forget this..

 

 

If we ask you,what was your first wife's opinion about you,what will you say???

You seem to be in a hurry to break relations easily.You want a perfect parner who's smiling at you & serving you all the time.

 

If she shows her resentment,callousness or disagreement,you immediately want to break up with her.

If you start demanding perfection from people,you'll never get along well with any1 in your life.

 

 

She may have become disturbed after her 1st divorce.Many women can't come to terms with a break-up.So it does not mean they are habitually abusive.

She must have faced abuses from her maternal home also,as many Indian parents don't like that their divorced daughter lives with them.

So,her main treatment,along with professional help will be your love and care.

 

 

 

It's also worthwhile if you both join an Art of Living course like Sudarshan Kriya.It will heal the minds of both of you very well.It will change her personality 100% fully.Trust me.She'll very become pecaeful.And you also..

 

 

So either go to a psychologist+join an AOL course,or else apponit a lawyer,spend lakhs of Rs. again and torture yourself to hell in courts.


(Guest)
Totally agree with Roshini. You have to love your wife unconditionally, go for a weekend with her, spend good time with her. Do things which she likes.One day she will definitely realise your love for her.But you have to make uncountable effort with a clean heart.

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