Hi,
I seek an expert advice from learned people in this club.
I am married since a year and a half ,the girl whom I married doesnot have good family history (i.e. Parents are divorced, Mom already married, father staying away from both the kids, brother takes care of his sister who married to me)
My wife is a working women having medical history known to us before marriage. Her income is not being utitlized by anyone of us she has all her money for her usage. Inspite of me paying for frequent doctors visit she doesnot take proper care of her health and eventually feels tired and throughs trantum in house.
She refrains from taking ownership in houeshold work like cooking and maintainging cleanliness in the house. We have maid who come once in a day time. Utensil's utilzed at dinner are being washed by the maid next morning, however only few small utensil which are being washed at night (we are family of only 3 ppl)
She demands maid for every housohld related work may it be maid for -
Cooking (When my Mom helps her in prepreatation of all the cokking she has to do)
Cleaning (We have a maid for it in one house she does that and another house I take care of all the cleaning.
Washing (Despite having washing machine at home seh wants me to hire maid to do washing)
Knowing her family history I got married to her and all my family memeber thought of giving her love and affection which she missed thru her life. Slowly we get to experience that anyone who trys to make her undestand, she feels the person is bad and not worth talking.
In past I have been teaching her multiple time not to back answer any elders from either family. Recently I have caught her using abusing language for my Mom to her freinds, she has also written that she wish that my mom dies early even after her death she wont respect my Mom.
This would be the last this I would want to happen in my life.
I dont wish to stáy with this person any more
Could any one help me in finding a decent and straight forward manner in which I can get seperated.