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Murthy (Software Engineer)     18 December 2013

Seeks advice

Dear Sir,

This is about my brother-in-law, who stays at Hyderabad.

He got married 5 years back and was blessed with son, now aged 4 years. It was partially arranged marriage.

Prior to marriage her father came to my my in-laws and brought marriage proposal . They went to bride's house and saw her and had initial talks also. He agreed initially and after a week  due to some reasons her father did not agree the marriage proposal but the girl(bride) opposed her father came out from her family and got married independently with my brother-in-law.

My in-laws too did not object their marriage.After couple of days she starting harassing my brother-in-law and my in-laws. My in-laws stay at other place.They do not stay with their son.When ever they come to see their son, from 2nd day of their arrival she starts harassing them.Even she tried to set fire on them.

She used to call to office colleagues and speak bad about my brother-in-law. She call our relatives and cry and shout on them.

Without any proper reason she shouts on opposite flat people and abuse them stating that they have affair with her husband.

Some times she even do not cook food for her son also.

Even she came out from her parents, she talks with them daily on phone and help them financially.She works for a MNC.

When she was taken to psychiatrist, she was given medicines for 3 months but her mother told her that we are making her mad so she denied using medicines and increased harassing.

We came to know that her mother and father tells all sort of lies to her( she has one sister and 1 brother.Her parents spoiled her sister's marriage life also)

My brother-law and my in-laws were getting depression and are thinking to take necessary step keeping my brother-law's son in mind. She is spoiling even child by telling lies on father and on all relatives.

Please give advice what to do.



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T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     18 December 2013

I think she is affected by some phobia hence is very indifferent in her behavior, this behavior may not be a new thing, she might have suffered this phobia since her childhood over petty issue at her home too when she was young and this has developed now to an aggressive state.  If her indifferent behavior is consistent and does more and more acts of cruelty every day, there wont be any solution for this except to divorce her and live peacefully for the rest of life by ignoring the marriage and  days together with her as a bad dream, instead in the name of saving the marriage if your brother in law is sticking to the sentiments, he will not find any solution or will be able to get any relief any time as well as the child's future will be in question in the event of frequent quarrels and exchanges of spat between both, so consult a local lawyer and decide further course of action.

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Murthy (Software Engineer)     19 December 2013

Thank you for reply sir. Will act accordingly.


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