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yes, precaution is always better than cure

but there are no surefire ways of defence against false cases.

Right said by Mr Amit.

Live life as, Sochnaa kya jo bhi hoga dekha jaaegaa.

Be a rebel brother's .................    ;):)

Rgds,

Abhinatre Gupt.

P.S.:: Be marry without any negative thought's as positive ones are always working on any relations.

Also applicable equally, to all girls looking to marry today's men:

In addition to the above, remember to check how his father treats the mother...more likely than not, you will get the same treatment from your husband.

See how open/closed minded the would-be man is about your relationship with your parents vs his relationship with his own family.

Check if he is an alcoholic, on drugs, visits prostitutes, has financial issues like debt, gambling, s*xual predator. 

Check if he has temper issues, or if his father physically/verbally abuses his mother, it is very likely you will be treated the same way and be expected to live with it because in his house, this is acceptable behavior.

Check if the person you are marrying has any actual interest in you or just wants you to make all the changes and adjustments after marriage and this includes: relocation, change of religion, not being allowed to meet your parents, being cut-off from your family and/or support group like friends.

Check if you have any common interests at all, or if he has totally differing tastes.

Meet his friends with him, especially the married ones. People surround themselves with others who think/act/feel like them. If any of this friends degrade their wives or speak of women in a demeaning manner, and he is party to it, it will happen to you as well.

Understand that you have the right to be loved, accepted, respected and treated with dignity regardless of which family you come from. He has the same right as you do. 

Most importantly: Marry someone who wants to be your partner, not someone who wants to control you or turn you into a puppet for his own/family's pleasure.

At whatever age you get married, remember that you are  new comer in a new environment. You cannot make or break anyone's house. If their internal family dynamic has not been good before you, it will not suddenly become worse because of you. Don't believe all the negative stuff about yourself. No-one knows your intentions better than you.

Remember to keep an open mind. In-laws aren't by nature bad people but marriages change the dynamics of a family. Indian in-laws don't understand that they're also supposed to accomodate a new person. You can be yourself and still respect them.

Totally agree.. but the law is still in favour of women.. if at anytime she feels that she is not able to adjust she can use 406/498A and blackmail the boy ?????

The tips given by you are really nice.Is she in some kind of interrogation?No need for checklist dear.Just behave natural-and act based on your instinct.Do you expect to know all  about her in the little time you get to meet her?Even a whole  life is insufficient to know a person.First,you have to know and understand yourself that what exactly you want.You just can't know everything about a person.The years ahead will challenge you,and you will learn much more about them and yourself as time goes on.If you cover the basics and both stay committed,you should have a long and happy marriage.All the best,regards.

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