rahul (director) 30 July 2011

Should i take her back?

I'm fighting the divorce case since last 4y and she is opposing the same on the pretext that she willing to live with me. she have influrnece on judge as judge pass wrong order in her application u/s 24 for maintenence. now its 4y maintenece, which I can't pay,

should I thinking to take her back. as a move to see whether she really want to join me or she is saying in front of judge to get big money as settlement.

now my parents saying they wont allow to enter her in their house, house is not in my name neither i'm co-onwer.

my parent are saying to me to rent a place and live there with her,

Now my question:

can she press in court that she want to live in our house only, otherwise she wont return?

if she don't return in a rented place.. then is it good point for divorce for court?

what other precautions i have to take while talking this step.

is she can do anything wrong with me or my parent, till now there is no other case file by her accept for maintenece u/s 24 of HMA?

if we live then maintence case will nulify itself/

will i have to withdrow my divorce petiton?

will this live period will distroy my 4y sepration,?

what will happen if we find that we are not happy, then how to file divorce in what way? if is by settlement?

please reply?

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Mahadeva Rao G (ADVOCATE) 30 July 2011

Dear Rahul,

My opinion in your case after going through the aforesaid statement by you. is One thing is very clear is that she is not to be trusted for sure as her real intention is to make a big settlement from you. If not within one month she should have joined you unconditionally if she has some respect for the institution of marriage and if any real love and affection was there for you and your parents. Dont falll into the trap of well tutored conspiracy game plan by her advocate. As per her maintenance is considered if u feel the judge has wrongly ordered for maintenace then there is an appeal wherein u can plead the real facts and get the orders set aside by appellate authority. U r parents are perfectly right in not allowing her to stay with them because she is game for trapping u r parents into domestic violence including you as well if u r staying together again under same roof. Pls do not fall into such trap. If u try to make a rented house and send in RCR she wil surely jumpo into it and stay with you for few days and trust me u will be behind bars under DV act. Let her stay away from u and fight her case. u should not take her back for sure as per experience in such cases. My friend always keep in mind there is bar in law for marrying for second time during subsistence of the first marriage BUT THERE IS NO BAR FOR U TO HAVE GIRL FRIENDS. ( Be careful )

For any more clarification u can revert back to me on 9845285555 or on sohan1912@rediffmail.com

All the best and Warm regards.

Mahadeva Rao G. ADVOCATE 9845285555 BANGALORE.

Avnish Kaur (Consultant) 31 July 2011

ANY CRIMINAL CASE filed against you?

DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g (POWER OF DEFENSE IS IMMENSE ) 31 July 2011

If you can take some lessions is psycology and set aside your ego and let her ego prevail than you will be happiest person by taking her back. It does not mean you have to be slave just pamper and go on pampering to the hilt.

What ancients had done - a) they said the wife is Laxmi the owner of the house =grahaswamini. b) Hindus coined the words SITARAM , RADHESHAYM : what does it mean giving importance to woman to inflate her ego. If you can do this trick no harm and you will solve all your problems.

Rajesh Kumar (studient) 31 July 2011

Hello Sir,

Fraud gang forged my mother's signature on a promissory note and filed private case in a civil court based on that court gave injection order based on the fake promissory note(how is it possible).

based on the injection order Fraud gang people anounced in the town saying that "no one should buy the house".

The witness people all are their people only. There is no material evidance unless the forged promissory note.

they are telling they know me but i don't even know anyone of them. in their explanation they have mentioned that they asked my mother many times for the money which is false.

is there any possibility to ask for police enquiry about he Forged Promissory Note

actually my lawyer submitted explanation saying that there was a 498A background for this case.. it is forged promissory note... and filed a petition to send the pronote for expert verification..

judge asked the opposit lawyer to bring their witness for cross examining..

they did not attend to the court for 8 times(for 1 year)

finally my lawyer asked the judge to issue warrent for them

after all the witnesses attended and gave their statement saying that we don't know her and we can't recognize her now.

Statement:- "while we were going home after work they asked me to sign on the promissory note"

Fake Promissory Note Persion Statement: "my father and her husband were studied 10th class in same school. Now they both dead"

(around there was no transport facility, in 1960 there was no 10th class. their village & my father villages and quite far 300 kms, no way to know each other )

There is a False Case or a loop hole in the Civil Law.

Let say some one forged your Signature on a Promissory Note and filed a private complaint saying

that you borrowed some money from him.

In the Private complaint they have given Written statement to the Judge that

1) You already known Person to them (never mention... then know you or not)

2) The Promissory Note was written at their house.

3) They asked you many Times(You have given Irresponsible Answers to them)

4) Fraud gang didn't attend for 1 year to the Court

My Lawyer Asked the judge to send the Promissory Note for Forensic Verification.

they don't want to send for Forensic verification

For that they have explanation saying that Todays signature will be different from the date of Promissory Note signature and asking the judge to do justice infavour to them

all people know that Fraud gang doing all these things just to harass my family

can lodge the complaint u/s 199, 419, 420,463,464,468IPC .

My lawyer is telling we should wait till the pronote get proved as forged one.

How to Proceed? is there any chance to ask for police enquiry on the forgery?

Thanks in Advance

Rajesh

rahul (director) 31 July 2011

avnish

i already menioned in my post that there is no case except u/s24.

once she file complain in CAW 1y back. but after 2-3 sittings, she make that on hold.and there is nothing on that since last 15 month. CAW is saying complain is closed temporarily.

Should i take her back?

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If you can take some lessions is psycology and set aside your ego and let her ego prevail than you will be happiest person by taking her back. It does not mean you have to be slave just pamper and go on pampering to the hilt.

What ancients had done - a) they said the wife is Laxmi the owner of the house =grahaswamini. b) Hindus coined the words SITARAM , RADHESHAYM : what does it mean giving importance to woman to inflate her ego. If you can do this trick no harm and you will solve all your problems.

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