Sister facing lot of problems from husband and in-laws

Stomach need food.

To buy food your BIL need money.

Money not grow on trees as Manmohan Singh said once.

It has to be earned.

So repect your BIL for he is working and concentrating on job.  Living in China is not easy, one has to slog it out, only then can make a living.

Instead of asking them to come to India, why dont you go to meet them?  If they cant come, you can go and meet them right.

Stop poking into your sister's life.  

Keep poking and unecessarily breaking your head about sister and her family, you might as well end up breaking her marriage.

Agree to all your points.

Work pressure can not be an excuse for not taking responsibility of your family. We are just asking them to visit because of certain reasons if you have not read my post pls read again.

A girl needs emotional support as much as she needs food after marriage and same for the guy.

Most of the girls are self sufficient nowadays and do not marry so the husband can feed them.

People like you who treat women as objects are the reason why we have so many such cases.

There are too many false cases now. Nobody in the system believes these women anymore.

You may ask your sister whether she want to continue this relation and if she agree go for divorce/ sepration. No advise can amend the conditions your sister is facing. Sister's in laws will also not amend by advises of this thread. If can not be compromised, sepration is the way left. It depends upon you how bitter you want to make the sepration?

You may ask your sister whether she want to continue this relation and if she agree go for divorce/ sepration. No advise can amend the conditions your sister is facing. Sister's in laws will also not amend by advises of this thread. If can not be compromised, sepration is the way left. It depends upon you how bitter you want to make the sepration?

Originally posted by : abhineet
	Agree to all your points. Work pressure can not be an excuse for not taking responsibility of your family. We are just asking them to visit because of certain reasons if you have not read my post pls read again. A girl needs emotional support as much as she needs food after marriage and same for the guy. Most of the girls are self sufficient nowadays and do not marry so the husband can feed them. People like you who treat women as objects are the reason why we have so many such cases.

Still, let her handle things her way.  Dont give tution to her, as to do that do this.  Your sister also has got something called as brain.

If you/your mom n dad stop giving advices to her, only then will she make use of her brain.

In short, let her handle things her way.

Seem to be a fake story

Dear Abineet, i m a woman, yet i feel that your expectation frm BIL is high.Your sister should help and support him for a brighter future for herself and her wud b kids. Regarding PIL demand of gift in anniversary , this is nt bad if we can make sm1 happy with little effort.

deaq Abineet, i m a woman, yet i feel that your expectation frm BIL is high.Your sister should help and support him for a brighter future for herself and her wud b kids. Regarding PIL demand of gift in anniversary , this is nt bad if we cn make sm1 happy with lttl effrt.

Leave your sister alone and let her concentrate on her family .. As a brother this is in best interest of your sister otherwise she will never be able to settle down as you will keep diverting her Everyhousehold has petty arguments .let your sister try and deal with this . Don't interfere or make big noise just because you can to ruin her family I am sorry if I sound rude but I mean all wellness for your sister. I also have sisters and respect women But also am under shadow of false cases by my bil via my wife