Sister-in-law creating menace

your quetions are specfic:- 1. We dont want to even her face, her insult & bad words has taken my parents health toll. Is there any way we can stop my sister-in-law to live in my house ? We want her to stop visiting my house.. Ans : You have no choice. she is member of the family and right to reside and visit wherever her husband is. 2. Can we do anything of threats given by her & her relatives ? Ans : Do you have proof of being threatened with implication in false cases (not very difficult these days).

Hi raju, happened to read your story, this is a really unfortunate and bad situation but this is the scenario in almost every house today where there is a cunning sister in law and daughter

in law, but dont loose heart, first of all you have to  establish contact with your brother, ask him his opinion

if he wishes to live with that woman or not, if he is in the 

negative, then immediately start doing the following thing

first of all, hire a good and reliable lawyer, explain to him

the entire scenario, secondly, start recording the calls

that you are getting from your sister in law, keep the memory 

cards safe, record all the conversations that are going

on between the opposite party and you, inform the nearest 

police station in detailed writing about the threats

received by you from the opposite party, also give in writing, the same copy to the womens protection cell in your area, be mentally prepared

to fight false cases like 498 dv etc. if she is not working

then tell your brother to immediately start depositing 

some money everymonth in her savings acccout to save him from

future maintainence cases, dont worry, the earth wont come crashing

down, but you have to keep yourself mentally prepared to 

make police station rounds and court rooms, also dont

worry about them creating an obstacle in your marriage

they dont have any right to do so.........

Does this mean the people who loved & cared us by burning their blood in day night in farms i.e. my parents to die in pain & suffering & watch patiently ?

Does it mean my sister should remain unmarried & society neighbours should spit on us ?

Does it mean rich & politically connected people make garbage of respect earned my parents & grandparents in my village for so many years?

Does it mean rich & politically connected people sh*t on my family head ?

Already my relatives started avoiding us after she menaced in front of my house. My uncle told me he does not want to be part of our problem also it will be very difficult for my sister in future.

My brother is selfish, he never helped us for my studies or my sister. As a elder brother he never taken any responsibility. He has not visited our home after marriage. He has even transferred his name from our ration card to chennai immediately after marriage. He never ask about our old parents not even cares of my sisters future. I am not worried about myself, I am worried about my sister.

Her family knows we have started looking groom for my sister that is why she & family has challenged.

If she wants she should go to my brothers house & live happily. I will help only if my brother take responsibility for my sister.

How sister-in-law got right to reside in my house where my brother lives separately for 8 years, no name on our ration card?

Dear Querist

 my opinion on your queries are as under:

Dear Querist

 my opinion on your queries are as under:

Well suggested my Nadeem sir and Fighting back

Injunction order (pros and cons) : In my opinion Injunction order though looks to a good step the chances of her misusing/challenging it are not remote if she pursues DV/DP/498 on you all.She may well aver to the court that her husband deserted her and her in laws are resisting her to enter her matrimonial home.

2. Police complaint is a good idea. Give in writing that you are being threatened uncessarily.You have nothing to do with your brother and female members in your family  are unnecessarily being harassed and they have become suicide prone.Also give in writing that your family members are willing to assist but should not be subjected to torture unnecessarily. Decision has to be made Selfish brother or innocent family members.

 

 

 

Frankly we dont have so much of financial condition in order to go to court & police file some case against her. Since I am saving for sister marriage.

If my brother has done wrong I will support my sister-in-law & do whatever possible, but as far as I know my brother he is god fearing person, little bit selfish but inside he is good. We dont know my sister-in-law but her behaivour looks like mental person. In my life we met her only 4 days & now I feel she is psycho, instead of helping us she & her family have raised war against us. They are insulting weekly at least once by sending some waged rowdy. They want my sister to rotten.

My brother purchased flat in chennai five years back & has rented it. So how my home becomes her matrimonial home, also she lived here only for 2 days?