Stridhan

Your opinion is welcome.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

yes u r right.

but even after filing 498A or DV,there's no guarantee that the girl gets back entire streedhan.

either she is forced for an unreasonable settlement,orr else forced to fight in her courts,with everybody advising her to forgive those "culprits" and not be "greedy" for demanding her own streedhan.but nobody says that the boy and his family had also been greedy once upon a time when the the marriage was fixed.

yes,india is a horrid place.i must have done really something wrong in my life,that i have been born here.

i stayed abroad for some time a few yrs. back,and also visited a few countries last year for vacation purpose.

let me tell u that those places are real heaven.and i felt really bad returning to india.

ha ha

1. It happens only in India that a wife read also as any female can walk to a police station and or a Magistrate Court and get FIR registered against husband n his family as well as against her b/f in later avatar.
Cinderella In any of the countries you traveled does this malacious forum peculiarity about India happens and or you were made aware of !


2. It happens only in India that the moment you land at any of the international Airport you can virtually take the airport baggage trolley all the way back to your bungalow.
Cinderella In any of the countries you visited you have to first push few cents into trolley dispenser machine to get a bl**dy baggage trolley out of its storage bay first then its radio chips beeps the moment it leaves Airport Taxi curb and / or taxi walla there will refuse to take trolley into his car’s boot whereas in India you can take the trolley all the way back home were you made aware of this! 


3. It happens only in India that matrimonial violence / offence are needing travel all the way to SC to get quashed on limitation issues.
Cinderella In any of the countries you vacationed were you made aware that matrimonial violence / offence comes under limitation period and a County / District courts does not even listen to female AP before dismissing with cost!

4. It happens only in India that the (empty) Johnny Walker bottle consumed over reception nite is put under Sridhan list next day while emotional - sentiments hydro power pressure / force lodging FIR.
Cinderella In any of the countries you traveled were you made aware that the reception bash consumption (empty bottles) are next day put in non-biodegradable garbage bin on the side of the curb for municipal van to pick up!


5. It happens only in India that 'fault' based divorce is only norm considered by cort.
Cinderella In any of the countries you traveled were you made aware that they work on capitalist principles i.e. 'no fault' divorce and get it over with asap !


6. It happens in India that maintenance and alimony is equated to ONLY STATUS of husband from rag picker to Ambani having to go throw the rigors of due process of Indian Constitution.
Cinderella In any of the countries you vacationed were you made aware that there they don’t calculate assets post marriage and all assets during marriage are shared / disposed equally between parting spouse at the time of dissolving their marriage as both sides bring with their Suit their marriage assets and marriage contribution by way of a worksheet for facilitating Court to dispose case in maximum 2-3 hearings lasting just on an average 3 months unlike India after 3 years one party ultimately manages to serve Summon upon another in a suit matter and Court is helpless meanwhile here.

7. It happens in India that matrimonial violence / offences are treated as ‘continuous cause of action” as per old school of SC Law of 1993 Re. Vanka Radhamaniohari v. Vanka Venkata Reddy and Others 67 (1993) 3 SCC 4
Cinderella In any of the countries you vacationed were you made aware there post facto laws are a big NO NO there and against the Constitution and rare ot rare instance are there in 124 countries were few Laws were repealed and then made retroactively operational unlike India here all civil cause of action are continuous till 99 years (ha ha more than national mortality average of either spouse so that we Lawyers laugh all the way to our banks when we do get clients like you who praise Abroad)!


8. It happens only in India that all criminal / civil suits serviced by females are compulsorarily contain 40% 'perjury'
Cinderella In any of the countries you vacationed were you made aware there that 'perjury' is the only biggest offence and females there take 7 lives before throwing wild paras unlike India State Govt. files petition before HC's to releive Indian female (that also a mmarried maid) to be not charged Perjury (re. Shinny Ahuja case Affidavit filed by State AG before Mumbai HC)!


I have worked 14 months in Berlin + 3 years in Sydney / Mel. / Goldcoast + 4 months in HK + 3 months in BKG + 18 months colly. in NP / Bhutan so it was not vacation I was posted there hence above rosy ness I can bring on forum table with first encounter authority and all International Laws reference is called for I can place them here for discussion on each and every para 1 till 8.


So Cinderella you see vacation is just a rosy phase where all that one vacations in for abroad looks too rosy to club down India the moment one lands at a International Airport and further the moment you come out of airport(s) and hear some of the above much better rosy ness of India vis –a- vis tough ground realities of laws abroad the last parting word not said here the better…......


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@ The lover of fairy tale story books

If everything is so great about India,why have millions of Indians settled down abroad,never to return here?

Why do women(or men for that matter) suffer for innumerable years in litigation,and share their horrible experiences here on LCI or for that matter in other legal sites too.

See,it's easier to say that India is better than other countries.This way we keep assuring ourselves that we are the best.

But I want to know HOW!

@ Chacha

In any of the countries you worked at,do lawyers,judges etc favour the "rich" parties?

In any of the countries you worked at,do legal procedures move at snail's place,as in India?

YES to both the que,

Infact in one of the SAARC country the 'enemy property case' is running from last 175 years.

So?

Is India any better?

And why do you refer to SAARC nations?

Talk in terms of advanced countries.

Even I agree with Roshni that in most aspects,India is not liveable.

If you ask me,to tell you frankly,even I hate India.

I will say this straightforwardly,even if LCIans hate me for this.

But I have my own reasons for this hatred.

Hello Tajob,

Glad you appeared. I run a small Paying guest accomodation for American women working in India who pay very well but have utter disregard for women who degarde their might and the oldest Indian Civilization. I may not be a lawyer or good at english like you but from your posts you have slammed free booting women out here. I don't understand much of your comments but from whatever I have understood, you seem to have given them the reply or response they deserve. I had heard of you from these women.

Tajobs,you are under a wrong impression that I am a teacher.

I am not even related to the education field.

But I know quite a lot about it,since one of my close friends is a teacher.

Roshni that is all right. I take back guess work on your profession whatever it may be!.