Good Evening All
I have gone through all positive and negative views expressed on "Live-in-Relation". First of all Mr Mohana Sundaram, Advocate, Madras High Court rightly noticed that now days we cannot expect correct and logical thinking of Judges. Our Laws were introduced for develop and maintain better society but our present judges thinking themselves as superiors and rubbing their personal views leaving all morals in to dust bin. They are forgetting that, their opinion / suggestion or direction will influence the society heavily. I also agree 100% with Mr.Girish Shankar views on 23-4-2010.
For a moment forget about all laws and rules just think about our society, our family, future of our next generation we can decide what is right or wrong. Aren’t we for better future of our next generation? We have introduced a rule or body of rules of conduct inherent in human nature and essential to or binding upon human society.
Forget about definition of legal or illegal, if a particular thing is not right is harmful to the society.
Take the grate Islam, Christianity or any other religion, all are in favor of social bonding, responsibility, and relations. If we start living as Shri. K. G. Balakrishnan opined, we don’t know who will be the legitimate child and who is not? Who is mother and who is sister we have to forget. What about Father, Mother, Son, Daughter, Grand parents and Grand Children love and affection. Don’t we have social responsibilities?
How can any one dare to take example of Lord Krishna. Who know the relationship of Lord Krishna and Radha? They are not for temporary relation. No history says that they lived together, History or stories or epics says they are great lovers. Their great Love relation cannot be linked or attached to “Live –in –Relation”. We cannot take any surprise tomorrow if these judges tell the public that “ there is no wrong if a women marry at a time more than one Husband because “ Drowpadhi “ lived with five husbands.
Just think today our spouse leave and start living with some one and after few days or months again if he or she bored with that partner and choose to start living with some other one…… and so on….. What about the little kids future? Who will take care of their future, whose name is to be given as father and mother? Will courts take responsibility of all such children? The female who is in Live-in-Relation the legal word is “CONCUBINE”.
Shri K.G.Balakrishnan suggested or expressed his opinion to public at large , can he approve that we can also have more than one wife because Lord Krishna married 16 or 16000 wives.
We , humans are having one great weakness it can be called as decease i.e “FOLLOWING” unless we have one role model, we cannot live, we cannot work. Mostly people in large don’t have their own way of style and system etc., If a Celebrity follows one thing blindly ,we start imitating them and thus follow. Be original, be yourself. Admiring your heroes is all right as long as you don’t imitate them blindly.
Finally I would like to express my views that we should not forget our moral responsibilities and our relationship with our parents, children, friends. Else our society will be ruined completely. Our tradition and culture will spoil.. We have to forget love relation, we will be only lascivious and there is no difference between us and Animals.