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Sheetal (xyz)     14 March 2013

Telephon harresment from married lover's exgirlfriend

One Of my friend got trapped in relationship with married man who told her that he was not having anymore relation with his existing wife . After being physical once , that man started avoiding my friend . Seeing his changed colors , my friend did some inquiry about him and came to know that he was having another affair with married women since 10 years who lived in chennai . My friend contacted that women to ask about the truth . First that women listened her calmly and also shared that she was also in relationship with that man . But suddenly after having some discussion  with him , she also changed and started abusing my friend as a "dhandewali" . She daly sends her messages that she will come to her house and will insult her in front of family members & neighbors and will prove that my friend is Prostitute . She sends her threatening messages using very vulgar language and abuses her family . That man is not paying attention to my friend and only listenes his 10 years old friend .My friend got so scared of her that she  went to his house and told everything to his wife . But still that lady abuses her sends her threatening messages . Can you please tell what can be done in this . Can my friend file a case against that man and this woman ? That man has ditched her , develoved relationship with her and left her and now wants to be with her wife . My friends life is ruined . Please tell if any legal action can be taken ....



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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     14 March 2013

1. No worth while legal action against the married man should be taken, except charges of Rape and now ask her to make a informed choice. Rape allegations will sustain in reference to context; i.e. entering into a s*xual relationship with a woman after impersonification and making her a false promise of marriage amounts to rape. Even if the woman is assumed to be a willing participant in their physical union (once), the fact that the man had no intention of marrying her would make it an instance where consent was given under a misconception, nullifying the efficacy of approval.The queriest woman friend was under the misconception that the man would marry her that is why she agreed to physical relationship (once as her friends tells us here), though as per the reading down of the brief he had no such intention despite having made impersonification in this regard.

2. Ask your friend to change her SIM card.

3. Forget him is next advice you should give to your friend.
[3.1. Innocence is always offered and not taken.
3.2. Before getting physical legal enquiry is done on impediment for falling into such relationship with already married man and not after THE act.]

Manish Udar (www.Mehnat.IN)     14 March 2013

I am sorry, rape charges are not possible in this case as she was aware of his marital status.

NPD and False Allegations

stanley (Freedom)     14 March 2013

Let bygones by bygones

Allow the unpleasant things that have happened in the past to be forgotten.

Simple solution already given above change Simcard . Next look into the future in fast forward mode rathing than in reverse mode .

Sheetal (xyz)     15 March 2013

And what if this man is a so called Guru , a famous relegious preacher  . Its his habbit of making friendships with high profile ladies to earn donations . His 10year old freind who also considers herself as his well wisher says that this man can have as many as KEEPS but loves her only ...

Does this kind of man is eligible to be considered as GURU who is playing in the name of GOD & Religion ?

Manish Udar (www.Mehnat.IN)     15 March 2013

If it is a so called Guru, then you may expose him through the media. Such crooks are a menace to society.

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Advocate)     15 March 2013

jab paap ke gathri sis dhari fir sees pakad kyon rowat hai.

 

your friend herself had ab-initio malafide intention as she knew the man is marrie dand no alwful marriage can take place and enter physical with him. 

Sheetal (xyz)     16 March 2013

My friend's mistake is that she blindly trusted on him . My friend has not at all any intentions of filing case or doing anything wrong . If she wanted to do anything  she could have done earlier when no body was knowing it and would not have gone in front of his family to tell the truth . She did not ask anything from him . she didi not blackmailed him . but the other lady is haressing her because she has come to know the truth about them , that lady is blackmailing and harressing her  . This is me who just want to know that what can be done in such case . Beacese this can happen to anyother girl also because he is a fake sant .

Sunil Gokhale (Advocate)     16 March 2013

You need to file a criminal complaint against the person - if he is cheating on several women 

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Advocate)     16 March 2013

Your story is not well understood.  Seen dispassionately your friend is just one of the several women including the one who is harassing her.

 

You are not aware of full facts.  It is illogical that this woman will take head on heels against her simply because she narrated his past to her.  There is something much more which your friend is not sharing.

 

I reterate, your friend herself had ab-initio malafide intention as she knew the man is married and no lawful marriage can take place (unless he is divorced) and yet entered  physical with him.

 


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