Threatening to suicide

Start collecting evidence through audio recording on mobile or recording device.

Start collecting videographic evidence by making video of her statements on spy camera, such cameras are available on online shopping like flipkart.com.

Report this to the nearest women poilce station and get a NCR, non cognizable report on this and they will in turn give a NCR number.  Keep that NCR number with you, as in your absence if wife ends up commiting suicide these photos, videos,  and NCR number only will help you come out clean.

As she is asking for divorce, its a golden opportunity for you.  Just agree for divorce and let her go.  Overall, in your  case, it is very difficult to get divorce if you will apply for it, today you might be thinking, marriage, child etc what about child life etc, but when u get fed up and you yourself wants divorce, you cannot get it that easily, it will take 10s of years, by the end of it your life will be almost over roaming to court halls facing false cases etc.  So if she is asking divorce, give it, marry soomene who is compatible with you.

 

You can always take custody of child citing mother has suicidal tendency hence child should be with you, and  court will also agree, you can leave the kid with your parents to look after or arrange for baby care by aayah.

I have seen thousands of cases like yours.  Women like these end up being a trouble to each and everyone in your life.  As I see it, if she wants to create trouble you will also end up losing your govt job and go behiind bars, not  just you but also your parents and relatives.

Be very careful.

Words of the wisdom:  Stay away from bad people, in this case your wife.

solve your problem amicably with her don't try to irritate eachother , don't give elasticity to your problem solve them on the spot if feels difficulty then take help of your elders , don't and never think about divorce , don't spoil your married life , your future , your mental peace ,everything by your own hands , rest upto you .

If the suicide threats continue and she is still behaving in the same way without any reason, you may as a precaution, lodge a complaint about her nature and behavior and the suicide threats over silly or no issue, get an acknowledgment from the police in the form of a CSR (or NCR), preserve it safely so that suppose it happens in the future, you may be safe to some extent on that aspect.  Thinking of divorce, considering  the infant child is too early, tolerate with her behavior till how much ever possible and once reached a level beyond tolerance, then think wisely about the legal course of action.

Advise provided by Mr.Helping Hand  and Mr. KS are apt to deal with your current situation ....more so considering your 8 month infant.