Uncle n aunt'n their problem

@ Author to this post,


1. Get your facts right first of all. A Govt. servant cannot do parallel a business also, it is against the CCS  (Conduct) Rules - Rule 15 (earlier Rule 12) sub-Rule (6), Rule 16 sub-rule (1) / if he is State Govt. service quote Department name I will pop out here particular Rule(s) from the State's Rules Book!
2. Now go and get records of his Govt. service as well as his business details (any paper which shows him as authorized partner - even non-officiating partnership / authorised signatory / letter head with his name / visiting card / bank a/c / photo anything will do).
3. You don’t come in between 15 years old social story. It is their 15 years old marriage with children out of wedlock and a Govt. accommodation as security for three of them (aunt + 2 kids) and the moment that is gone she will be living in your house for sure bze you started the social abala trigger effect.
4. I am aware a third women (you here to be specific) can never keep quite for long, so do the needful; go to his hospital ward (if he still at hospital is what I mean here) and show him the partnership / authorized signatory or his link to a business activity while in a Govt. service and tell him to "now take care of my aunt and kid or else I will file an independent complaint (whistleblower) and your cushion Govt. job will be gone for a six and then I will encourage my aunt to file DV Act complaint and all sorts of maintenance cases to see to it that my aunt with kids are securee and probably it will be very painful to your private parts undergoing currently treatment in its faster recovery !"


If he understands simple verbal warnings he will mend his ways from his hospital ward days onwards, if not then act upon para 4 for that you don’t even need an advocates services for the time being.


But do send 250 gms. eSweets to LCI Admin. for showing you the civil society whistleblowers way out

Sir thanq for the above help,

According to the information my uncle is saying that he is no more a partner in the bussiness n he has only his govt job,n all the care that XXXX lady is taking is only on for the sake of their friendship this is what they say,but we dont belive it coz no friend will keep quite when the family is breaking,well sir my doubt is my uncle is very stubborn,if we warn him as said above he may himself resign his job n may live with that XXXXXlady's support she may fulfill all his needs n help him with the money in that case how will my aunty n kids live???

In that condition DV act is the right weapon to give ur aunty RESIDENTIAL RIGHTS + MONEY.

See, if the husband is not willing to cohabit, has lost his love in the wife & kids, NO LAW CAN FORCE HIM TO DO SO.

All the most one can extract from such a person out of marriage-laws is MONEY + PROPERTY, one sided love n comromise can not help.

So better talk with him in PANCHAYAT opening his cards about adulterous relationship n set the things right if possible. If still there is no hope reviving the relationship, work on MUTUAL CONSENT DIVORCE