Dear Experts,
In continuation to my previous post, wherein my shrewd actress wife, after getting exposed of her night stays with her bf in hotel, had started harassing me and my old father who is a high BP patient., at times by her suicide threats and continously using law to her advantage. She is in same city but she never disclosed where she is presently staying and with whom. I stay with my old father presently. It has been more than 7 months that she is staying away. It has been more than a year of marriage.
I heard that my wife is planning to go for DV case against me and then then divorce on the grounds of cruelty.
Please note that: after No communications for 4-5 months, later taking advantage of my emotional nature : my wife who is a gifted actress , with an concealed motive of creating proofs and evidence on records, started attending my calls and making calls to me in which made few recordings of calls wherein she made all sorts of allegations, her willingness to stay with me (though being in the same city she never tried to come to our matrimonial house)and in one of the calls cleverly infuriated me and forced me say things on high note.
My question :
1. Can such telephone recordings enough to create a case of DV against me , pl.note the calls were her desperate attempts to create proofs against me, wherein she has cried , said all sorts of loving things (wherein in realty she has threatened to spoil my life with her legal charges) and in 1 call me being angry over her false allegations and she pretending to be an abla nari in that particula conversation. I short made a planned recrding projecting herself as a abla nari.
2. Should i wait for her to file a DV case and following a divorse case , or should i file it first ?
3. What can i do the safeguard my hardearned property from her claims.
4. Keeping in view that my wife has filed a complain against me in CAW , what best can be done to protect myself and my old dad who is currently not well and has just been discharged ICU of hospital.
Please suggest me some course of action steps. but pl.note that
1. Though she has been unfaithfull to me, i do not want to harm this shrewd lady , as she has been the love of my life, no matter how much she tries to end it.
2.Also i am much worried about my old dad whom i nearly lost because of their sudden appearance at police station.We were earlier informed by them that they are ready to attend a family meeting the next week.
3, Regarding me, it does not matter whether she loses or wins, because the damage has already been done and my home is already broken.
But, i want to pass on the message that it never does any good to avenge yourself and threaten,harass innocent lives just because they raise an objection to your wrong doings instead you should correct yourself and try to give stability to a relation.
At the same time please suggest your knowledgable opinions on my queries because i want to wrap it up as i am much worried about of old dad's worsening health issue.
regards.
