sorry for delay in updating.
meeting was arranged through some gentelman who knows our family and have very good contacts with police higher officials. so officer was kind enough to listen to my problem and suggested to write letters to DGP, SSP, SP, CAW cell and local police station. he further adviced to apply for family councelling from my side. logic was to call them for talks and to get idea about their views about reconcilation and further action.
if they dont turn-up for councelling it will be an disadvantage on their part and by applying we will get upperhand in front of law. he further mentioned if girl and her family wants to go for 498 A or DV then no one can stop them. but our such precautions will help a lot in avoiding any hasty arrests and if proofs are not there with girl and in most cases due to exagerrated in nature proofs are not there so major harm will happen except loss of valuable time. but in way we can get rid of such lady for ever.
one more thing if the facts mentioned in letter can be proved by some sort of evidences (photos, e-mails etc) or by witness of neighbours or servants etc. it may help a lot in defence.
there is no way to avoid such cases if its in our fate. by taking proper precautions in proper time will reduce initial troubles which can be horrible in some cases.
i had submitted the letters and will apply for councelling. then will update the exact situation.
regards
victim
