I hereby request your valuable suggestion in my cousins life.
sudarshan murthy (xyz) 30 April 2014
I hereby request your valuable suggestion in my cousins life.
Solomon Raju (Advocate High Court of A.P.) 30 April 2014
I have gone through your case and understood that the marriage took place very recently....
In General in all marriages, now a days problems are coping up due to egos, education back grounds and status of other spouse family and various other reasons...But first thing people shall understand is that in a new marriage either it be an arranged marriage or love marriage...two people brought up in different environments come under a roof by God's grace and at elder's wishes...for better life...A new family is more like a new born child...a child initially is completely dependent on mother and later once he/she starts crawling...he will crawl this side and that side and fall this side and that side..will have some scratches...this makes him physically strong and he will learn how to balance things.....as same...more involvement of elders makes things awkward...first let bride and groom sit together and let them come to understanding where the problem started and where is the solution....generally it is very tough because of adamant behaviour of other spouse...but the spouse who is willing to join shall sacrifice his/her ego and make his/her efforts towards that direction....
Convincing is a skill and first of all we shall understand that to convince them, we shall first go into their way for some period sacrificing ego and other aspects...thereafter, it is upto you how you mould your partner into your way....Put all your efforts towards that direction...if no response is there, then approach competent family or civil courts to decide the dispute.....If your marriage is under Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 for restitution of conjugal rights you have to file the same under section 9 and if it is christian marriage, you shall file the same under Divorce Act, 1869 section 32...
So make your efforts in that direction....
Solomon Raju
Advocate, High Court of A.P.
Laxmi Kant Joshi (Advocate ) 30 April 2014
satish bhaskar (Litigant) 30 April 2014
it appears wife's relatives are interfering in the life of the couple. take care for the marriage is new. cases drag for years resulting in harassment to both parties from law and judiciary.
Sreenivas V (S/W) 04 May 2014
Hi Sudharshan,
I see you both belong to different states. So there will be more chances that these things may happen. As said by above members try to keep marriage alive. Going to cases should be lost resort. But once you start putting cases then the things will be worse. One of my collegue in similar situation thought of filing 498A on them. But I told them not to do it but give warning. So with local police and elders they conveyed the message saying if things did not restore they will file case and explained the cases also. Now they both are living hapily and parents interference is not there at all since 1 year. They have a son also now.
Filing cases you can file from where the GIRL home town.