Your options are as under as you are at the mercy of your lawyer. Even if you change your lawyer you would have to pay for appointing a new lawyer to fight the case . If you have the confidence to fight the case yourself than appear party in person and contest the case . No lawyers fees :-)
Still a lot will follow in your case .
1. you are asking for visitation rights for the child .
2. Next you would see her putting an application for interim maintanence for the child .
case would go on like this
application put for visit + maint one by one than = + WS given + argument + lawyer's absent in between + judge absent in between etc and etc and you would be spending minimum 5 years on your case