wedding called off, legal implications

Mr. Prabhakar and Mr.Palnitkar.

Thanks for comments. Why dont you think me, as your brother and analyse the problem, agreed money is not an issue i can repay it. Even after 2 months, she didnt started liking me. Whenever i ask her, whether she likes me or not; she replied "she will try to start liking me & till now she has not". Her communication was non-responsive and arrogant, egoist. During the countership, she didnt tried to contact me. After engagment she has not even given missed calls or not even one phone call or even one mail. I have taken enough efforts to contact and communicated with her, from her side its ZERO.

She is very very rich than me; if money is my motive i could have married her. Money is not my motive, i need a lovable person as a partner.

I have not made any sin; i know the indian culture, i have read all great epics/puranas/vedas/history. No one can say, that i made mistake. 

I have given enough opportunity to her, i have failed. Why should i marry a physic women; if i have a opportunity to break.

Stitch in time will save nine. If you see from a girl's father side, then you will say what i have done is sin. But if you think from my side, i have saved my parents getting attacked from that evil girl

Now please say, what i did is correct or not????..

I wanted to ask one more;  After engagement, if the couples find uncomfortable with eachother or if one finds a major problem with other, still they want to get marry, because of our culture.

The time is frame between the engagement and marriage has got many reasons 1)  preparation for marriage 2) Understanding eachother whether they can live with love and respect. 

In my relative circles, this incident has never happened to anyone. I have thought i can break engagement. She made me to think. she made me to approach lawyers, how to get rid of hers. kids should be upbringed with love, not by showing the richess. Hence her father and family is suffering now. In mahabharatham, how dhirutharhastrar suffered by losing dhuriodhan

 i am advicing all friends; Be very very careful in selecting their partner, as some girls are very very dangerous, they can poison the life.  Whoever reading this convey, to their nears and dears to takecare in selecting their partner.

I was proud, that i can live with any kind of girl. But god has taught me, that i am wrong.

I dont know what is the cultural back ground of the girl. May be that they are orthodox hence didnt find it proper to give miscalls also to you.  I know several families who are so orthodox. Hence, I am not willing to draw any inference either against you or the girl. What I feel is that the matter should be given a quietus through negotiations.

No sir.

She is well educated. But her bought up is very very bad, she doesnt know to respect others. In my life, i have not seen a girl like that, if i have seen i would have been cautious 

I agree in this forums, mostly womens are getting effected because of partner's greed. 

But please also note, in both the gender, evils are present. 

Money is only to live happy life, that has to come from our own hard work, then we can taste that. If it come from your fatherinlaw, what charm is there!!!   

Dear Rajesh & Palnitkar

Now, girl father is sending repeated mail stating that i need to fully repay the engagement expenses. Though i broked the marriage; reason was because of her physic behaviour, they made me to spend flight charges and spend 1 month in india, which was unpaid leave, for this engagement.

Please advice Should i repay fully or half of the engagement expenses??

Well this is a demand of money. Keep these communication. If there is any threat associated with this demand that if this is not paid they will do something, it amounts to extortion.

If prima facie case of extrotion is made out, you can take appropriate criminal action.

Rajesh Ji

Thanks. But all the communication are in "Email". Will Email communication will be acceptable in court.

Now girl father says, I dont know how to attract a female and fold her. He says that's why her daughter didnt like that much. hence he is claiming for money.

You will not believe; I mentioned about physic behaviour. The truth is; Every full moon day and no moon day, she elevates to excited mode and talks nonstopingly and behaves rudely.

We crosschecked her horoscope throughly (this is after engagement and break up); Now astrologers are confirming that she will have this problem, because moon is hiding in her horoscope, but unforuntaly, before engagement we cross checked with only one astrologer, he didnt point this. What a bad time i have !!!

The email, coupled with your statement is a perfectly valid evidence.

And, this horoscope thing- even if you believe in it, dont base your arguments on these- it will weaken your arguments.