What are the steps to be taken immediately?

File a complaint with the police about the threats given by your wife to you and your parents about implicating falsely in dowry harrassment cases and suicide.

u shud all go lock stock and barrel and start living with ur inlaws. Don't worry and chicken curry at in laws house.

i she is a bengali, then fish curry.

Please help me..

As you said, 1) your sending money to her 2) sent letters to her for joining matrimonial life, 3) threat messages from her.

All these are solid evindences for you to defend yourself ,if she files any false cases. Keep those evidences ready to face the battle, if she opens the war.

If you have any evidence of threating in anyway, you can also file a complaint before the police and take an acknoldge from them.

Dont worry, as long as you are honest, nothing can beat you.  But becareful with the opposite party if they are crooked fellows..

Chanakyam sir,

Thanks for your valued reply. I have already made a letter, yet to be submitted to our local police station. But getting fear that based on the letter police will react and provoke her in various ways and means which will effect me adversly. So what should I do? please advise.

We had suffered the same issue (infact  more worse than this)....tHese letters will be a great proof to you even if she implicates you in any false case...Normally the police does not immediately take action against these letters.....You can get a safe side by stating in the letters that you are "anticipating things".....

Also if things really seem to move in that direction start collecting all sorts of proofs beforehand & also apply for a 72 Hour arrest notice coz this can save you & ur parents from any kind of arrest later specific in terems of dowry harassment.

Hope I have been able to clarify things from my end.

Whether police provoke or does not provoke, its immaterial.  If you are sure for expecting a false case, then go ahead in advance and file your complaint based on that facts.  Thats what you can do for now to be on safer side.  If the opposite party apporaches first, then things will become little tough to defend yourself.

If you want to take steps, then follow Steve Martin:

I like a woman with a head on her shoulders. I hate necks.

Steve Martin (1945 - )

Oh no! Who told you to complain to police? Now, your wife will have all policewomen on her side. Better take anticipatory bail.

"apply for a 72 Hour arrest notice"

Divvya Sir, wll please explain the said application, how to get it? Where are to be apply? what are the proof /evidence are to be gathered to obtain the same?

R.B............

Court does not give you anticpitaroy bail unless case has happened from ur wife's side.

You need to submit an application in local court that you are fearing a false 498A from your wife's side.....Alongwith that you need to submit some proofs which shows that you are innocent...

if the court gives you a go ahead for 72 hr arrest notice, then if ur wife does a 498A then police gives u 72 hrs or 3 days time period. they cannot arrest u in that time period. in those 3 days u have to file an aniticopatorybail/permanent bail to save urself from 498A.... If u do not get bail then u can get arrested...Also if local court rejects ur bail application, then one has to try in high court for securing bail.....

You depose before the police that you were very cruel to your wife and even planned to murder her. Then move the High Court under Article 20(3) of the Constituion which means that nobody can depose against himself[Self incrimination]. Tell the High Court that your wife bribed the cops who made you depose in the Police Station at gun point. That'll get the cops and wife very busy and 498a will fixzzle out and probaly if an FIR is lodged later it'll be quashed. A complaint to the police is not F.I.R. The cops will first make a diary entry and register the Complaint in the REGISTER OF FIRST INFORMATION REPORTS ONLY AFTER INVESIGATION.

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I have not got your aadvise properly. Please explain the same.