What to do

He has love children? Any family members of your Husband who has discuss with him about your problem? I think he has not setelled so he has confuse, You try to talk with your husband on telephone or mobile and your children  r also talk with their father. If he has not agree with u at that time u file a criminal case against him as per IPC SECTION - 498/b BUT i believe that this is not good for both-side and he has agree with u. Children r request their father for stay with us. 

One small agression is not sufficient to go for severe step. (If it is uusal habit of saying this) If the matter can be resolved amicably please go ahead.

At thius astage I don't think this is very reasonable step to take very hasty decsions

You both need help and guidance from family. You don't need lawyers advice. look for your and his health, other issues as normal wear and tear are normal.

He talks to me rudely. Yesterday he called me and said the admission of my daughter in new school should be got done within this week otherwise i will ruin all of you. You return me my money and my gold that i gave you. we will have a meet and your representative will come and take your belongings.

dear,,,

    all these things r not small to think in 1 night and next day get away with it . its not a question of you only its all about your kids also. so take your time and have words with famalies thats the only solution that i will sugguest you to go for.... if anything you can reply me on it ... take care

Again the same mental torture i have been facing, he is without job and is very suspicious in petty issues . He alwasy keep on saying for being apart. He force for Mutual divorce application and not to give any maintenance as he do not have any thing.