In a democracy, laws reflect the power equation in the society. The power equation has come to become loaded against men for a very simple reason- Women use men bashing as a political tool, men do not do that. Women demands division of society on the basis of gender, men want to stop this division.
Contradiction is a very useful tool in political campaign. In such campaign, you say exactly contradictory thing and demand a benefit which follows from both the statements. In ancient system of logic, it is called "dwividha", or a sword sharpened on both side. Look at the feminist logics:
-Marriage is bad for women and women should not marry so more benefits to women in marriage.
-Women should be trated equal, so reserve seats for women in legislature, job.
-Women should not be treated as commodity and they are vote banks.
I dont know really whether women movement will be able to divide the society on gender line or not, but its success will be the worst thing in the life of a common women.