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Sundari (atreytr)     18 August 2012

Why rcr?

We are separate for Five years.  Husband seeked divorce and case was dismissed on default.
 Interim Maintenance was granted, but he did not pay.  I did not go for Execution Petition or Domestic Violence. As money was not an issue, I want to live with him.

He filed a CRP for the Interim Maintenance in high court. He had all documents to prove that I was working. It was pending in high court for four months.

After five years, only recently,  we met . He insists me to file RCR and also says he is not interested to live with me. He says that I am planning to file a DV case and take revenge on him and that is the reason, I was waiting. I dont know why? I just wanted to be cautious. During the talk I was insisting him to take me with him, he refused and said I was acting creating drama.

After the meeting, he withdrew the CRP and now he has asked for Legal Separation that too in a different court. My advocate says that this case can be dismissed in one or two hearings.

I dont understand why he has been doing all this? Why would he file a case knowing it would get dismissed? Why did he withdrew the CRP immediately after the meeting and asking now for legal separation? Why is he insisting to file an RCR? He gives me mixed signals.

For all five years i was waiting only for him to return so that we can co-habit (since he was in US, could not meet him). I also told him that if my intention was revenge, I would not have waited so long. But, he is not believing me.

I don't know what to do, kindly advice.



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rajiv_lodha (zz)     18 August 2012

Only 2 solutions:

* Either resolve the differences n start cohabitation

* If he refuses to listen to anything u tell & says that he has lost trust in u..........................do not waste ur time n agree for MCD. Relationship is dead & it shud be declared open

rajiv


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