My wife is staying at her parents house. 3 months back she delivered a baby boy. Now she joined service in a semi-govt school as a teacher and its a residential school. so she is staying in the School Hostel with the 3 months old baby. I have pleaded her many many times to come back to me as its my moral duty to take care of my wife and baby. But she is more interested in doing her job near her parents house rather than coming to her matrimonial house. She is giving me one absurd option that is she will come back if i desert my 72 yrs old , sick widow mother (her inlaws). How will it be possible that i`l leave my mother who did extreeeme sacrifices in bringing me up. today whatever i`m in my life is due to my mother. But i dont want to loose my mother nor my wife and baby. My wife knows very well that i`l not leave my mother. Thats why she is giving me such an absurd option. Basically this is an excuse of not returning to her matrimonial house. she is interested in her service. I have stopped givivng her maintenance because so long i was giving. Now when i `m not getting my wife to me nor i`m enjoying my fatherhood why should i give money to her. Its she who have taken the decision of working near her parents house. i have not told her to do. I`m denied of my conjugal rights too. She and her parents basically wants that she will stay in the school hostel with her baby. I`l stay at my own house. And i `l keep sending a good amt of money to her for her and baby maintenance. But she will not come back to her matrimonial house. Is this is a married Life.
Apart from filing RCR what other steps can i take. Please advice. She will not give me divorce. Because she planned that when my mother will expire i`l inherit her property bas a son and automatically as my wife she will inherit that property. But she dont have to take care of her mother-in-law when she was alive .
Plase help.