I have in detail posted in a previous thread the whole story. But as I have not been able to get any replies or suggestions, I am giving brief explanation again in a separate thread.
Me and my wife had a relation since 2009. she was a minor then. later after some hurdles I married her in 2012. our marriage happened in a temple. i kept the marriage secret from my family and my father in law kept it secret from their relatives. both me and father in law agreed to take her with me after her studies completed.
not knowing my marriage situation in 2015 my mother arranged a match for me and confirmed date for marriage without my consent. I finally told them i was already married and got the attempt of marriage withdrawn. meanwhile my wife got suspicious and my father in law gave a false complaint that second marriage has already happened. the situation was explained clearly and statement was given by me to the police about the events and both us parties came to a compromise. our marriage was immediately registered. no FIR was lodged.
My parents sent me away. i stayed with my in laws for a while. my wife went for studies in another city.
i had some health problems and had to go on leave on loss of pay. i had financial issues. these were misunderstood by my wife as me neglecting her and the same was encouraged by my father in law instead of convincing her. i had to depend on my parents for 11 months for even basic needs. their condition for me to stay with them was that i leave immediately as salary resumed. same was conveyd to father in law and wife and no one objected.
i got resumption of slary from may 2016 and arranged a rented separate house for me and my wife.
problem is since december 2015, communication between me and my wife diminished and since april 2016 i am unable to contact her by phone as she has blocked my number and since december 2015 she change her numbers twice.
i contacted my father in law and asked to send her with me and i will take her with me. at first he gave excuses like she was busy doing some project work, then he said she does not want to be disturbed by me as her studies will be spoiled by me. later when i insisted more I began getting threats that for me to take my wife home I will have to get the permission of the police where the initial complaint was given. and i will have to wait till october or till they decide when to set up a meeting.
my question is what right do the police have to keep involving in my marriage. what steps should i take to get a meeting with my wife to persuade her. i cannot live without her.
I have publicly declared my marriage immediately after the complaint to avoid any other efforts from my family or my relatives side. but my wife's relatives do not know that she is married. they have declared her as unmarried even in her college and hostel for purpose of scholarships.
Now after much humiliation, I have come to a point I do not care about my job or anyhthing. I just want her in my life and I want to do the right thing and persuade her. please help me.
i am attaching a letter that I wrote to the police that were involved during the inital false complaint. please go through for details.
