Wife in india...harassing husband in usa

Just run over in your mind, what would be the purpose of informing the embassy now. it may lead to adverse assumption that you drove her out and now because of the case you are giving the letter, since it is already two years. 

Please confer with your lawyer in India before taking any further action, since he will be the one facing the consequences in the courtroom.

This is just a general suggestion, not technical.

@Amit - US Embassy is for issuing visas, not for solving matrimonial disputes. On what basis she will file a case to US Embassy, Will she go and do fasting before the consulate or do Dharna..or Strike??

As you mentioned She is fed up with Court System in India because it takes lot of time for the courts to come for a conclusion or a judgement or to order something...

For Civil and Criminal etc., Courts are there..and they are delay Centers...

Was she working in India or working before?

You will be entitled to pay for maintenance for the Child. But since he is a US Citizen Laws might differ.

Don't afraid for anything, have some courage or watch some inspirational movies....

If you have Patience, just go with the flow of the case. Chill and relax. She will be happy or crying roaming courts in India..

Dear Jayshree, Raj, Superhero and noname,

Thank you for your advice and time.

I did not want divorce, but now the way she is treating me, I can't live with her, still in court I will maintain that I want to live with her. I will fight the maintenance case and also fight for child custody as my son is a US citizen and has a better future here.

Superhero -

Good to hear from you. Yes, she was working in India in software industry and her salary when she resigned and came to US in 2009 was Rs. 70,000 per month. She is MSc in IT and very educated. Can she still ask for maintenance? She is now not working and saying she is not finding a job. In her maintenance application she is asking for Rs 2 lac per month maintenance. When my lawyer contacted her lawyer, she told they want to settle for divorce for Rs 50 lac rupees, and I must forget my son, which is not acceptable to me. I am ready to support both of them, provided she allows me and my parents access to my son, which she has not.

Noname -

I had asked lawyers here in US, they told me I can file a case here for custody, but my wife in India can safely ignore the court notice as India and US don't have a treaty for such matters. If I file a criminal kidnapping case, she will face arrest if she comes to US, I know she will not come to US. My intention is not to harrass her, but she is being unreasonable and getting harassed on her own in the process.

@Amit - She can ask for maintenance but in the court your lawyer has to argue by showing the evidences that she has been working in India in the past and she is capable of working,

Also she has to prove that she has applied for so many jobs and so on..

She doesn't have any livelihood or her parents can't take care of her.

I don't think Court may award 2 lakhs per month. May be she will be awarded 20000 Rupees per month. Some lawyers may throw some light on it. 

Sorry to hear she is adamant. Ask her or her lawyer why just 50 lacs not 5 crores.

Just tell them I will resign the job and come to India. and just a file petition saying that I have no job too..What will the Court do??

All this will take long and lot of time...Please be prepared for that. 

Thank you Super Hero.