My wife is staying at her parent's house since the day of discharge from the hospital after give birth of my daughter. It is more than one year. Earlier stage I was visited their place in a normal course. But when I understood that she is so reluctant to come back my house and trying me to get separate from my old poor parents, stop to go there.
Every month I am sending her money henceforth no telephonic conversation is made with her or her parents. She belongs in a women dominated culture and regulated by her Mother mainly. Also I have sent 04 nos letter with AD to get her back. But instead of rejoin she has started to send me false fabricated SMS consist of Dowry harassment, Suicidal threats etc.
So I have decided to make a GD to our local police station stating the all facts as an advance declaration from my side is it effective to prove my innocence? Apart from that what are the effective steps should I take immediately to save my old poor parents first from the initial harassment they are intended to do and finally to prove her that she has left our house at her own wish and trying to get rid of this marriage by taking a chunk of money.
I have already made a letter, yet to be submitted to our local police station. But getting fear that based on the letter police will react and provoke her in various ways and means which will affect me adversely. So what should I do? Please advice. I anticipate that if I file Divorce first, she may file 498a. Now she is asking me to send her original birth certificate of my daughter. I replied that "anything can be obtain if she comeback with my baby and stay with me according to my financial status". What would be the reason behind that for asking Birth certificate?? Please advise...