HI,
I need help as am facing my family issue with the following points
1) Got Married in Dec-2010
2) No consumption of Marriage at the First night also no physical relationship b/w with my wife in Honeymoon.
3) we both are Software Engg
4) She dont no cooking , washing and cleaning.
For few days i only done washing and cleaning . Food outside parcel from hotel.
5) I used to say we will do (both) everything but she denies as she is soff eng even her father is also supported her.
6) she was with only 2 months that to be not all days. After she is used to stay in her parent home.
7) I went onsite for 6 month from May-2011 to oct -2011. After comming back she and her father asking me
show the job security . They are telling me to that work 6 month then we will decide stay or not like that.
I never asked her salary in my whole life. Father-in-law saying that you dont have right to ask her what is her salary like that.
8) After this i disscussed with my parents and elders . My father-in-law is not commng in front of elders.
He dont want to talk with anyone.
9) Finally i sent notice as saying come and stay with me. ( now i am working at Chennai, weekend i will
be in bangalore home)
10) In reply i got notice saying that,
a )Physical and Mental harassament and On first nite she telling that i behaved animal kind and aggressive (which i am not done)
b) Secure a job.
11) so please give me suggestin how to proceede which shud not affect my career also.
12) now i am planning to file Petition saying that come and stay with me in bang home.( as her parents home in banglore) Every weekend i will come.
